FAQs

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for recommendations.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we absolutely adore your little ones, we are planning for this celebration to be a small and intimate adults-only experience. As difficult as it was for us, our own children will also be staying home during our time in Kauai. 🤍 We completely understand that destination weddings can make childcare difficult, and if bringing your child is ultimately what allows you to attend and celebrate with us, we would much rather have you there than miss this special moment altogether. We simply ask that if your child will be attending, you kindly contribute toward their accommodations and participation costs, as everything is being planned and reserved very intentionally for our guest count. We truly wish we could include all of our children in this celebration, and we do plan to have a larger celebration back home where they can be part of it with us. 🌺

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What is the dress code?

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There’s no strict dress code — we’re getting married on the beach after all. 🌺 Comfort in the Hawaiian weather is most important to us, so we encourage guests to wear something that feels breathable, relaxed, and still special for the occasion. Think beachy, elevated, and comfortable. Linen, flowy dresses, tropical prints, sandals, and light colors are all perfect. We simply ask that guests avoid overly casual attire like swimsuits, gym wear, or graphic tees. Most importantly, we want you comfortable, present, and ready to celebrate with us in paradise.

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How should I RSVP?

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To RSVP, go to the RSVP page on this website. Please submit your RSVP by 4/1/2027 so we can plan accordingly!

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Other than the ceremony and luau celebration afterward, we do not have any additional scheduled events planned during the trip. We truly hope you use this time as a vacation to relax, explore the island, and enjoy Kauai with your loved one. Whether that means beach days, adventures around the island, sunset dinners, or simply slowing down and soaking it all in — we want this trip to feel special and memorable for everyone joining us.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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Absolutely! While we will have professional photographers capturing the ceremony itself, we will not have photography coverage for the entire evening as we are intentionally keeping this celebration small and intimate as part of our elopement experience. We would love for you to take photos, videos, and memories throughout the celebration. The only thing we kindly ask is that any photos or videos from the wedding remain off social media until we’ve had the chance to share our formal announcement once we return home. We can’t wait to relive the memories with all of you afterward!