FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by October 25th, 2025. Make sure to RSVP for all events you will attend, as we are ordering food and drink based on the number of RSVPs.
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Is smoking and drinking allowed at the ceremony and reception?
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Per the policies of our venue, no "drugs" (alcohol, cigarettes, e-cigarettes, vapes, marijuana, other tobacco or cannabis products etc.) are allowed on the church property. We ask that everyone follows this rule as there is a significant fine if it is not followed. If you have any questions on if something counts, feel free to contact us and we can ask the venue.
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Will there be food at the reception?
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We will order specialty cupcakes and cream puffs for the reception and will have water, coffee, and iced tea to drink. The family meal will be the day after the ceremony.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will start at 2:00 PM, we recommend arriving no earlier than 1:00 PM and no later than 1:45 PM. The sanctuary can seat many more people than the guests we have invited so you should not need to arrive early to reserve seats.
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Is there a dress code?
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We ask for everyone to at least dress business casual (button shirts, khakis, etc) but if you want to dress fancier that is welcomed. We ask that no one but the bride wears a white dress and no one tries to upstage the happy couple (e.g. LED light up suits stay at home, please).
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Are you registered? Where?
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We have a honeymoon registry with Honeyfund under the Registry tab above. Please do not bring any physical gifts, we won't have anywhere to put them!
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I don't want to use the online registry. Can I give a gift another way?
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Feel free to bring a card with cash or check in it. And make sure to tell us what you want the money to go towards so we can send a personalized thank-you card! Remember we will not have space to store any physical gifts (silverware, toasters, etc.) so we ask guests not to bring any.