Zamar and I went to the same high school, however we never physically crossed paths. We both went to school with the others sibling. Years later, he sent me a friend request on Facebook and the rest is history. The Proposal..8/11/2019 So Zamar decided to take me to a Durham Bulls baseball game. I was a little confused since he didn't quite watch baseball, but anyway, I went with it. It was pretty muggy that day so I was a little sweaty but I appreciated doing something new. So, in the 5th inning, we were watching the scoreboard and in seconds, I saw the words "Will you marry me, Ashleigh Bethea aka Babycakes". OMG, I was super speechless and even now, I am super amazed that he did such an memorable and unthinkable proposal!