FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the events as soon as possible. Given location of wedding, the deadline is January 15, 2026 and if we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions & will have to mark you as a ‘NO.' We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, we hope you can understand. ♡ P.S. Please keep in mind room reservations are to be made by January 15th to get discounted room rates. Also, full payment is not required at time of booking, however it is due 60 days prior to arrival.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you’ve received a plus one, they’ll be specifically addressed within the invitation. Otherwise, we ask that only the named people on the invitation are in attendance. Thank you for understanding!
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Are children welcome?
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As much as we love your little ones, we kindly request that only children ages 5 and above join us in celebrating. We are so grateful for your understanding!
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Is the wedding outside?
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Yes, as the sun will be shining (hopefully) both the ceremony and reception will be outside. Please make sure to dress appropriately and keep hydrated throughout the day.
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What do I wear?
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Beachy Cocktail Attire Most of all, come feeling comfortable, radiant, and ready to celebrate love by the sea. 𓇼
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We ask that you kindly put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony as we want you all to be present with us in the moment. We have a professional, photographer and videographer, capturing the ceremony for us. Other than the ceremony, yes! Please feel free to take as many photos and videos you would like.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Although the ceremony starts at 4 o’ clock p.m. we recommend that guests arrive at least 15 minutes before so you can get settled, enjoy refreshments, and music before the proceedings.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! There will be welcome drinks during cocktail hour and dinner, and an open bar for the party! We want you to have the best time, so the drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you! ♡
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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Yes! ♡ We are excited to be having an optional Sunset Catamaran welcome party on Friday May 29th, 2026 to kick off the wedding weekend. It will be a evening out on the water with dinner, an open bar, & transportation to & from hotel included. Dress code is ALL WHITE ATTIRE (tan/ khaki is okay as well), & we would love for everyone to join us in celebrating under the sunset. As this is optional, the cost is $130 per person. Children are welcome. If you would like to attend, please let us know so we can reserve your spot. Payment and RSVP due January 15, 2026 (Venmo @Ashleigh-Slaughter or Apple Pay 505-879-9560 to reserve) P.S. Pickup is at 4 pm from hotel so please plan travel accordingly if wanting to attend!