We had known of one another for many years, but we were finally "reintroduced" to one another by Ashley's cousin, Steve, who also happens to be one of Kurt's best friends. We went on our first date at a restaurant in Hampton in 2017 and never looked back! On Christmas Eve 2020, Kurt quietly pulled Ashley's parents outside during their family gathering to ask their blessing to marry Ashley -- Cindy and John were thrilled, and everyone did a great job at keeping the news a secret. The next evening, after a fulfilling day spent with family, Ashley and Kurt went home to open each other's gifts. The best gift of all was when Kurt got down on one knee and Ashley said yes!