FAQs
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What is the R.S.V.P. deadline?
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Please R.S.V.P. by January 30th, 2026. We kindly ask that any responses received after this date will be considered a “no,” to finalize our headcount for the venue and catering. We can’t wait to celebrate with everyone who is able to join us!
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Dress Code/What should I wear?
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We’re going for semi-formal attire with pastel colors. Light colors such as butter yellow, pastel pink, baby blue & lavender are encouraged. For women: please wear longer dresses (knee-length or longer). For men: button-down shirts with tie or suits. The vibe is springtime coastal California. San Diego can get chilly at night, so please remember to bring a sweater/coat to wear when the sun goes down.
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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
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Our ceremony will begin at Harbor Island Park promptly at 5:00 PM, so please plan to arrive no later than 4:30 PM to get parked, seated, and ready. Parking is across the street near Harbor Island Loft (the reception venue). The venue is conveniently close to San Diego International Airport, but traffic in the area can be unpredictable — especially near downtown — so give yourself plenty of time.
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Is there parking at the wedding/reception venue?
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Yes, there is parking lot next to Harbor Island Loft, the reception venue. Vouchers will be available in the reception venue-grab one on the way out.
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Are children invited?
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We love your little ones, but our wedding will be an adults-only celebration (aside from our wedding party’s children).
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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Yes, please skip white, ivory, champagne, etc. (men can wear white button ups shirts, though) so the bride can stand out, as well as very dark colors that may feel out of place for our sunny San Diego celebration. We’d love to see our guests in vibrant, joyful colors that match the fun, pastel coastal vibe of the day!
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We’d love for everyone to be present in this special moment with us. We’d like to have an “unplugged” ceremony (no phones and no cameras). However, please take all the photos and videos you want during the reception.
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What will I do after the ceremony while the wedding party is taking photos?
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We will host cocktail hour at Harbor Island Loft (the reception venue) after the ceremony! Please mingle with other wedding guests over some delicious hors d’oeuvres, drinks, and a Mariachi band!
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Reception Details
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Join us for an unforgettable evening at Harbor Island Loft, located directly across from our wedding venue. Our celebration begins with a vibrant cocktail hour at 5:30 pm on the stunning marina-view deck, featuring delightful light bites, refreshing drinks, and the lively sounds of a Mariachi band. After wedding party photos, we'll move inside for a delectable buffet dinner showcasing tri-tip, Chicken Marsala, fresh seasonal vegetables, a refreshing strawberry salad, and delectable dessert bites. Enjoy our open bar (look for our signature cocktails!), and dance the night away until our reception concludes at 11 pm. We can't wait to celebrate with you!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! There will be both non-alcoholic and alcoholic beverages available. Check out our signature cocktails on the drink menu!