Bride
I was the 10-year-old girl who dreamed about her wedding day. It's still surreal that I am now less than a year away from saying "I do" to the man of my dreams. Calvin is absolutely the one for me. I am in love with who he is and all that he will become as my husband. I can't wait to be called Mrs. Calvin L. Martin Jr.
Groom
Arquillia is truly a remarkable human being. She's much more than I could have ever dreamed of. The rest of my life sounds a lot more exciting with the thought of her being in it. I can't wait to change her last name on April 25, 2020!!
Maid of Honor
God couldn't handle us as sisters, so he gave our moms a break and made us cousins. Our sister-like bond has left an unforgettable impression on my life. I couldn't imagine a wedding day without you by my side.
Best Man
My little brother! The most authentic person I know. Thank you for agreeing to be the best man and for always being a person in my life that serves as an inspiration to be a better me.
Maid of Honor
Our friendship has stood the test of time, and although I have experienced so many changes in life, our friendship has been a consistent reminder of love and loyalty. After 20+ years, we have millions of memories, but April 25th, 2020 will be one for the books.
Best Man
My Boy JDV3! It's been a long time coming man. You were my first friend to get married and you've been a solid example of what it means to be a God fearing husband. I'm honored to have you as my best man. Lets get it!
Maid of Honor
I thank God we met in Biology class in the fall of 2011. I can't tell a college story without saying your name. We immediately clicked and were attached at the hips at our beloved Hampton University. Since then, you have continued to be my right hand but most importantly my best friend and my sister. I love you, endlessly. Forever Bre & Que!
Groomsman
I remember when we were chilling at the bar after a show and you walked up and said "Bro is that Arquillia? You need to go talk to her." I listened and we haven't stopped talking ever since. Thank you for being a man of vision and character. April 25th gone be lit!
Bridesmaid
I always wanted a big sister; now, I have the perfect one. You are such a boss, and I admire you so much. Thank you for loving me without hesitation. I am so ready for all of the family celebrations to come.
Groomsman
All I have to say is THANK YOU! Thank you for protecting your little sister over the years, thank you for introducing us, and thank you for trusting me with her heart. I'm going to do my best to treat her with the same Love and respect that you have over the years. Much love bro.
Bridesmaid
My praying diva in the high heels. Can you believe this all started in our freshman dorm, laying on the floor talking about God, our future weddings, and college life? Now we are both engaged and living out the things we then, only dreamed out. We've gone from Nana's greens to diamond rings. Thank you for being on this journey with me. I love you P.
Groomsman
"Uncle JU!!" You ready for that bro? You've been nothing but loyal over the years so I just want to say.... thank you, for agreeing to be apart of this special day!
Bridesmaid
There's always that one person who comes into your life unexpectedly but changes it forever. Our friendship continues to become more beautiful as we learn and grow through life together. Whether we're praying, venting, or talking about our plans for the future, our bond always keeps me on track. I am beyond blessed to have a sister like you.
Groomsman
JB! I remember when I told you "I'm going to propose." I gave you all the plans and details and you gave nothing but love and support. I appreciate you bro! Thanks for being a real one.
Bridesmaid
The Student Leadership Program at Hampton University gave me a few fantastic things, but you are my absolute favorite. God is so amazing for allowing our paths to cross. You are stuck with me forever, little sister. You know, no matter what, I got you always. I love me some you!
Groomsman
"The successful man is the average man, focused." This is a quote you've encompassed since we were in college. I'm blessed knowing that you will do everything in your power to help keep me focused on the most important things. God, my wife/family, and giving to others. Thanks for everything bro!
Bridesmaid
Sam, you are light in any room you enter. When I encountered that light we were sitting in a Graduate Research class at DePaul University. From then on, we were attached at the hip. I love you and I am so happy that you will be a part of our wedding day.
Groomsman
Tristian! Over the years, you've been a constant source of inspiration, and you've had my back since I was 16. We've watched each other grow from boys to men. I'm super excited that you will be a part of this special day.
Groomsman
My Boy! Thanks for all those $5 haircuts back in college! You have been A1 since day 1. We're about to celebrate!
Junior Bridesmaid
Our one and only Junior Bridesmaid! You have been Arquillia's mini-me since the day you were born. We are so proud of the young lady you are. We love you so much.
Groomsman
Bro we’ve been through mountains and valleys in our California journey and I know you will be there for the highs and lows of my marriage. Thanks for always being a consistent friend no matter what. Let’s get it!
Junior Groomsman
J3! Our one and only Junior Groomsman! We know you will have the swag of your dad on April 25th and we can't wait to see it. Thank you for being a part of our special day, we love you endlessly!
Flower Girl
Our one and only goddaughter, Damiyah. You are such a light in our lives and we cannot wait to continue building the best relationship with you. We love you so much baby!
Bride Announcer
New New! My first nephew and now Calvin's first too. We can't even put into words how much we love you, and you are continually giving us new reasons to be proud. We know you will be the best Bride Announcer!
Flower Girl
Le Le! You are going to be a beautiful flower girl. We are so proud of the young lady you have become and we are excited about your future. We love you and thank you for being a part of our big day!
Bride Announcer
JD! Or as your new Uncle Calvin would say, Mr. Cool! We are picturing you on the dance floor at the reception in your Men in Black shades and cannot stop laughing. We love you more than you will ever know, big boy!
Flower Girl
Our pretty niece, Eleanor! We are so excited that you are going to be a part of our special day. We love you so much, big girl!
Ring Bearer
Booka! You made me a godmother and changed my life forever. When you and Calvin first met, you instantly loved him, and I was so happy about it. There is nothing in this world we won't do for you. You know Godmommy loves you, and your NEW Goddaddy does too!
Bible Bearer
Action Jaxun! Hey sweetheart...we love you so much and cannot wait to see your smile coming down the aisle. We are sure that after the wedding, everybody will love you as much as we do!
Parents of the Bride
Mama and Daddy, I cannot say thank you enough. I am all that I am because of God's grace and your teachings. My wedding day has been one of the most anticipated days of my life. And as expected, you guys have exceeded my expectations. I love you both with my entire heart. XoXoXo
Parents of the Groom
My amazing parents! What can I say besides thank you! Your marriage embodies and represents integrity, trust, unconditional love, and respect. I aspire to embody those same characteristics in my marriage. I love you both very much and can't wait to celebrate with ya'll!