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What is Mehndi?

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A thick paste made from henna leaves applied to the skin in intricate designs that last several weeks.

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What is an Anand Karaj?

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This is the Sikh wedding ceremony, translating to “blissful union.” It takes place at the Gurdwara (Sikh temple) and includes: The Milni Ceremony: Occurs outside the Gurdwara. Members of the bride and groom's family greet each other, symbolizing their union. Breakfast: Served in the Langer hall (dining hall) of the Gurdwara. Guests then enter the Gurdwara's main Darbar Hall for the 60–90 min Anand Karaj ceremony, which is conducted in Punjabi. After some prayers and hymns, the bride and groom will walk 4 laps around the Guru Granth Sahib, or Sikh holy scripture, which represents their union and devotion to one another. More prayers and hymns conclude the ceremony. Lunch follows, again in the Langer hall. After lunch, the bride and groom and family members will go back to the Atwal residence for photos and to socialize. Guests are welcome to join for this, but can also decompress at their hotel until the reception too.

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What to expect inside the Gurdwara?

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Men and women sit on separate sides of the Darbar Hall. Traditionally, when one enters the Darbar hall, they bow to the Guru Granth Sahib (holy scripture) and take a seat. You may bow if you’d like or simply take a seat if you don't feel comfortable doing so. Cover your head and remove shoes. Bandana-like cloths called Ramals will be available, or you can bring a headscarf or bandana from home to wear. Everyone sits cross-legged; limited seating is available in the back for those with disabilities or who are unable to sit cross-legged. Please avoid pointing your feet toward the scripture. Projectors will display English translations of the Punjabi ceremony.