FAQs
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When/how should I RSVP by?
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RSVP easily right here on our website! Kindly let us know if you’ll be joining us by December 14, 2025 — we can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony starts at 1pm at St. Michael the Archangel in Cary, NC. There is a short break between ceremony and the reception - feel free to freshen up at your hotel, change into dancing shoes, or grab a quick snack before joining us for an evening of celebration, laughter, and lots of fun!
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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There is ample parking at both the ceremony and reception. Heads up: The Oaks at Salem (reception venue) does NOT allow overnight parking — so no camping out! 😉 Please drink responsibly, and if you need a ride, Uber or Lyft is just a tap away. We want everyone to get home safe!
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Is there a dress code?
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Formal Attire (Black Tie Optional) We'd love to see you dressed to impress! Tuxedos and gowns are welcome, but a dark suit and tie or a dressy cocktail dress are perfectly appropriate too. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to Ann!
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Can I bring a date?
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Our guest list is limited, so only those listed on the invitation are invited. If you received a plus-one, it will be indicated on your RSVP form.
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Can I bring my child(s)?
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While we truly love all of your little ones, due to space and logistics, we’re only able to include children in the wedding party and immediate family. We hope you understand!
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Where should I stay?
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We’ve reserved a block of rooms at two different locations with a special rate for our guests. Visit the Travel page for booking details!
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Kindly include any dietary restrictions with your RSVP, so we can do our best to accommodate your needs.