FAQs
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Are there events besides the wedding that I should know about?
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Yes, there will be a Mehndi Sangeet Welcome Party on Friday -- this is totally optional but all guests are welcome! Please RSVP by July 1st for this event. After the reception, there will be an optional after-party also hosted at The Ivy Room, which all are welcome to attend. Additionally, some of the bride and groom's out-of-town family and friends will be attending The Cubs game at Wrigley Field on Friday, August 15th, at 1:20 pm (games usually last fewer than 3 hours). If you're interested, please join us at or near section 308L!
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Is there a dress code?
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Suggested dress code is listed with each event on the Schedule section, but if you have specific questions, reach out! None of the events will take place in grass (although the ceremony will be outside, weather permitting), so feel free to go all out with your footwear. Please avoid bridal colors for the ceremony and reception (white, ivory, cream, etc); beyond that, please free to play with color! Bridesmaids will be wearing a butterscotch hue.
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What should I wear for the mehndi/sangeet?
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Fun, festive clothes you can dance in! Wear wedding attire that you're comfortable in. Western clothes like dresses are perfectly fine! If you're interested in wearing indian clothes, here are some more details: For women, a lehenga or salwar kameez are common choices. Other options would include a pre-stitched saree or sharara set. For men, check out a kurta pajama or a kurta with a vest. If you'd like to buy online, Kalki Fashion, Utsav Fashion, Indya, The Saree Room, Pernia's Pop Up Shop, Indian Wedding Saree, Asos, Aza Fashions, and even Amazon have great options!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to capacity limitations, we cannot accommodate plus ones unless explicitly listed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!
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Are kids welcome?
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We will not be able to accommodate young children, although some older children may be personally invited and will be listed by name on the invite. If you need help arranging babysitting care, you can reach out to us.
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Can we take photos at the ceremony?
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Guests are asked not to take photos or use their phone during the ceremony -- it will be short so we don't want guests (or our photographers!) missing a minute of it.
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What do I do if I have a food allergy?
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We are collecting allergies and dietary restrictions with RSVPs.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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There isn't dedicated parking at The Ivy Room, however most hotels have parking options.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes, we'll be celebrating!
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What days are the hotel blocks for?
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The hotel blocks are for Friday and Saturday night, but the group rate can be extended three days on either side, pending hotel availability.
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Do you have a registry?
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Please do not feel obligated to offer us a gift of any kind (we really mean this -- we are very fortunate for your love and support and so just a card is plenty for us)! If you would still like to give something, please visit our registry tab. Please avoid bringing physical gifts to the wedding, as we'll be traveling from NYC.