FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by September 26.
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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No, we have opted not to make a registry, so no need to bring cards or gifts. Genuinely, the greatest gift you can give us is your presence on our special day. However, if you feel inclined to give, please consider donating to one of the following charities chosen by us: - Malaria Consortium: A global health organization that specializes in the prevention, control, and treatment of malaria and other communicable diseases, primarily in Africa and Asia (https://www.malariaconsortium.org/) - Brain and Behavior Research Foundation: An organization that funds scientific research to better understand, prevent, and treat mental illnesses such as depression, schizophrenia, anxiety, and bipolar disorder (https://bbrfoundation.org/) - The Conservation Fund: An organization that works to protect America’s land and water resources by partnering with communities, governments, and businesses to promote sustainable conservation and economic development (https://www.conservationfund.org/) - Engineers Without Borders: An organization that partners with communities around the world to design and implement sustainable engineering projects that address critical needs such as clean water, energy, and infrastructure (https://ewb-usa.org/) - Folds of Honor: An organization that provides educational scholarships to the spouses and children of fallen or disabled military service members and first responders (https://foldsofhonor.org/) - Long-Term Future Fund: An organization that supports projects and individuals working to improve the long-term future of humanity, with a focus on reducing global catastrophic risks and promoting long-term well-being (https://funds.effectivealtruism.org/funds/far-future) (Or feel free to choose a charity that is dear to your own heart.)
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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We recommend arriving at least 15 minutes prior to the ceremony.
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Is there a dress code?
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We would consider our dress code to be "semi-formal." Feel free to dress up, but we want you to be comfortable! (Ladies, don't feel obligated to wear high heels unless you want to.) We also recommend picking clothes that will keep you warm in case of chilly October weather.
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Can I bring a date?
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Our wish for our wedding is to keep it intimate and family-focused, so please do not bring any additional guests beyond the ones we have accounted for. We will let you know how many seats we have reserved for your party in advance.
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Are kids welcome?
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Yes! Children will be included in your party number, but it is ultimately up to you whether you would like to bring them or not.
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What kind of food will be served?
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We will be having a semi-late lunch around 3:30 pm, with hot and cold sandwiches, wraps, and quesadillas. There will also be a few sides, a variety of desserts, and three types of non-alcoholic drinks. Vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free, and meat options will all be available. Several items will contain dairy, but none have nuts.
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I have a food allergy. Can I make a special request?
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Of course! Please leave any notes about food allergies or other dietary restrictions in your RSVP.
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Will alcohol be served at the wedding?
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No, this will be a dry wedding, and outside alcohol is not permitted at the venue. If you would like to drink after the wedding, feel free to visit a bar/restaurant in Bedford or Bloomington. If you choose to do either, please make sure to arrange transportation from the bar/restaurant to the hotel (or wherever you are staying) for your safety.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We have reserved a block of hotel rooms in case anyone needs or wants to stay overnight on Saturday (the night before the wedding), Sunday (the wedding night), or both. The hotel is Hampton Inn at 1322 Becky Skillman Way in Bedford, Indiana. It is about 22 minutes away from the wedding venue. To book a room (or rooms) at this hotel, please see the instructions in the "Hotel" section of this website.
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Is there transportation from the hotel to the venue and back?
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Unfortunately, no. Please arrange your own transportation via personal vehicle, carpool, Uber/Lyft, etc.
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes, there will be places to park on the gravel and grass. As you enter the venue, there will be a fence on your right; you can park facing that fence. Or on your left, there will be a section of gravel/grass; you can park in that section facing the building. There should also be a couple cars already parked in these spots, so you can follow their lead. Please do not park in the circle drive.
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Is there a designated smoking area?
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Yes, if you want to smoke, please do so at the fire pit. The fire pit is next to the silo bar.
