FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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We encourage you all to RVSP as soon as possible, and would prefer to hear from all our guests by May 4, 2019. You can RSVP using this website, or you can email aaronannalisewedding@gmail.com to confirm. With any questions at any time, don't hesitate to reach out to the email listed above.

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What should I expect in the ceremony?

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For those unfamiliar with a Lutheran marriage ceremony, our service will be what is termed "religious traditional" and is very similar to a conservative Catholic service. Within the service, the music will include chanting of the psalms and singing hymns. All lyrics & responses will be provided for those who wish to participate as part of our service. The tunes are fairly easy to follow; everything will be accompanied by either an organ or a piano. There will be readings from Old and New Testaments of the Holy Scriptures, as our faith holds these texts sacred. In the middle of the service, there will be a sermon; the preaching & its message will be accordance to the theology of the Lutheran church which holds that marriage is designed by God for a man and a woman and reflects the love of Christ's sacrifice for humanity. The exchange of vows will be traditional and likely familiar to most individuals, even if not religious themselves. If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out by email at aaronannalisewedding@gmail.com.

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes! Kids are more than welcome! There will be an activities corner at the recpetion to help them stay occupied while adults mingle and socialize, as well as many bathrooms and a nursery for mothers with nursing infants.

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Can I bring a date?

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We are limited in the number of people we can accommodate in our hall, and we wish to ensure that our family members and friends will be able to attend. However, we would be positively delighted to add any additions of your loved ones as we are able and have created some space in the guest list for these additions. Please contact us first via our email (aaronannalisewedding@gmail.com) and we will get back to you as soon as possible!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! Please indicate so on your RSVP online or via email at aaronannalisewedding@gmail.com. There will be vegetarian appetizers as well as gluten free and dairy free options. However, please still indicate your preferences during your RSVP so that we can accommodate all our guests with greater ease.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is huge parking lot attached to the parish. There is room for all, though we do encourage parties to carpool where desired.

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Are there any bridal showers occurring?

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Due to the generosity of family & friends, there are currently 3 bridal showers scheduled throughout April & May, occurring in the areas of Warren (IN), Yspilinti (MI), and South Bend (IN). If you are desirous to participate, shoot us an email and we can let you know the exact times and dates.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Following the reception cleanup, the parents of the Bride would like to offer some food and drink out-of-town guests who are remaining overnight due to the length of travel. This will be done informally and will be played by ear. Feel free to reach out to aaronannalisewedding@gmail.com if you wish for more details or to be put in touch with those organizing the event.

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I want to help! What should I do?

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Doing so is by no means neccessary in order to attend, but help would be gladly welcomed wherever it is found. Simply reach out to us at aaronannalisewedding@gmail.com. Currently our biggest needs are the following: -- an informal DJ or tech guy/gal -- a reception table/chair tear-down crew of 10 people -- musicians & vocalists (beyond pianists or organists) -- food makers & bakers for 200 serv. of each item (must be available during the first two weeks of June; item of making will be discussed prior; cost of ingredients will be covered) Donations or Loans of the following items: -- 8 long rectangular folding tables -- white lace tablecloths round -- clear vases -- event serving dishes -- coolers / serving vessels for liquids (hot/cold) -- clear Christmas lights w/o plugs -- child entertainment equipment/toys All items would be returned in the four weeks following the wedding weekend.