FAQs

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What is a Barat?

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The Barat is a procession from the grooms home to the wedding venue. Thomas will get on a decorated white horse and friends will be playing a dhol (drum). The grooms family and friends dance and have a good time while they make their way to the wedding. The bride’s brother will help Thomas off the horse and bring him to her mother. The mother then does a welcome prayer for the groom. She will put flowers, a tikka (red powder on forehead), and rice on the groom. Feed him a sweet (ladoo). During this portion Thomas will wear a pagari (turban) as he is wearing a crown like lord vishnu for the ceremony. Anju’s mother will grab his nose during this meeting so as to bring him back down to earth.

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What is the dress code?

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Formal Indian or Western Wear (cocktail attire) for wedding and reception.

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Can I wear a saree?

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Yes! This event is all about celebration, color, and sharing our big fat Indian culture with all of our loved ones! The more festive the better! Just a note, saree’s can be tough to tie and wear if you are not used to them. A good alternative for new to Indian fashion are lehengas, churidars, pre stitched sarees and gowns.

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Where can I get Indian clothes?

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There are several online shops now that are great! Check out a few below: 1. https://www.azafashions.com/collection 2. https://www.kalkifashion.com/ 3. https://shopkynah.com/collections 4. https://www.perniaspopupshop.com/ 5. https://www.houseofindya.com 6. https://www.tanishq.co.in - jewelry 7. https://saffronlaneco.com/ - mens clothing For dmv locals, you can check out some of these shops in person 1. https://www.moharbyec.com located in Centreville 3065 Centreville Rd Unit C, Herndon, VA 20171 2. https://www.mumbaiboutiqueusa.com located in Clarksville, MD 6363 Ten Oaks Rd, Clarksville, MD 21029 3. http://www.rubyscollection.org located in Vienna, VA 8032 Leesburg Pike, Vienna, VA 22182

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Where should I stay?

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We have room blocks at the Conrad hotel (wedding location) and Embassy Suites (across the street from the Conrad). Please see the travel page for links to the room blocks. There are also tons of options so feel free to peruse travel websites, the wedding is in the city center which is easily accessible via metro.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please let us know your plans by September 16.

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Can I bring a date?

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Unfortunately, we are limiting guests due to budget constraints and venue capacity. We promise to show you a good time!

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we adore your children, due to budget/space constraints we ask that only those invited attend.