Wedding Party
Hannah Backus
Maid of Honor
My name is Hannah, and I’ve known AJ since… too long. Growing up with her has been one of the greatest blessings of my life, with her as not only my sister but my best friend. We’ve shared everything together, ranging from memories of playing with our lalaloopsies to going on weekly coffee dates, and I couldn’t imagine my life without her. I love her her so much and I'm privileged to get to stand right beside her as her sister and best friend.
David Alfaro
Groomsman
I’ve known Benji for more than half of my life and it’s such an honor to be part of this important day of theirs. The memories over the years I have accumulated with Benji are second to none, some of the highlights of my life have been with him by my side. Forever grateful and thankful for Benji being in my life and for AJ becoming such a special part of his. Wishing them all the best throughout their journey in life together!
Nicole Castillo
Bridesmaid
My name is Nicole, and when I first met Aj I was overwhelmed with joy knowing my brother had someone to love. As time flew by Aj became part of the family showing up to birthday parties and random hangouts. I am super grateful to have Aj in my life, she has been so helpful and supportive during my hard times and I will never forget that.
Michelle Castillo-Ruiz
Bridesmaid
I first met AJ as my brother’s girlfriend. AJ has been part of the family for a while, but our bond really deepened when she helped me through the first days of bringing my newborn home. She’s been a sister in every sense of the word, and I can’t wait to officially welcome her to the family!
Andrea Covarrubias
Bridesmaid
My name is Andrea, and I met Aj in 1st grade. From playdates to working together and going through college, we’ve shared so many memories growing up together. I’m so excited to stand by her side as she begins this new chapter!
Anna John
Bridesmaid
Hi, my name is Anna and I’m AJ’s cousin! I’m so excited to be her bridesmaid and I can’t wait to see her walk down the aisle on her big day AJ is more than a cousin to me she’s like my big sister and best friend all in one who is down for anything and always there for me. Watching her with Ben makes me so happy that she found someone who makes her this happy and it means so much to stand by her side on her big day.
Sara John
Bridesmaid
Hello!! My name is Sara and I am Aj’s favorite cousin. Aj has been there for me through thick and thin as we’ve grown up. I am so excited to watch her begin a new chapter in her life and even more excited to walk by her side through it all.
Lyndon Kov
Groomsman
Hi, my name is Lyndon! I have known AJ since 7th grade Chinese class, and I knew that when we were the only two seniors left in the class that we would be best friends for life. AJ is truly so special to me; she’s passionate and compassionate, and she has shaped the person I am today. I am so happy that she has found Ben, seeing how well he treats her has meant the world to me. The first time I was introduced to Ben was when AJ and Ben came up to Cal Poly to compete for ASU in a mock trial competition (but mostly to visit me). I knew that Ben was the one for AJ that night when he entertained my dorm friends and I’s shenanigans and made it through the mandatory hot seat for AJ’s benefit. I am so excited to see AJ and Ben’s relationship continue to grow and flourish, and I am so grateful to stand by their side and see it all happen!
Amelia Lach
Bridesmaid
Hi my name is Amelia! I have known AJ since middle school. She means the world to me, she is my best friend, the sister I've never had, a shoulder to cry on, my Instagram post reviewer, and so much more. People say you have to hit 7 years of friendship to stay friends forever... AJ and I have been friends for about 8 years, but I knew pretty soon in I would never want to lose her. Her glowing light, thoughtful advice, and care has shaped me forever, her impact is engraved in me... literally engraved (we have matching tattoos)! I have been around for the days we would dream of our ideal, future husband, planning our weddings in notes passed in class, and now I am more than happy to see her walk down the aisle to that dream man!
Tane Leon
Groomsman
The first time Benji and I truly met was at our first Church retreat in California. We got sat next to each other and have since became inseparable, kind of like Batman (me) and The Joker (Benji). While we may not always agree on everything, we’ve shared years of friendship, unforgettable memories, and spent countless hours laughing at things no one else would find funny. Benji is one of the most genuine and loyal people I know having stuck through the toughest battles and the greatest victories. Over the years, I’ve watched him grow into a man of integrity, faith, and genuine kindness, and I couldn’t be prouder to call him my brother. It’s an honor to stand by his side as he marries his 2nd best friend and starts this exciting new chapter.
Emily Naegele
Bridesmaid
Hi! My name is Emily and I’m AJ’s sister-in-law. I met her as our hubbies are brothers. I’m so grateful to have gotten to know AJ and created so many memories with her. These past couple of years have felt like I’ve known her for so much more. It’s such an honor to be by AJ’s side as a bridesmaid. The love between AJ and Benji is so sincere and charming. I’m excited to see them grow as individuals and as a married couple.
Anthony Trejo Leon
Groomsman
Hi my name is Anthony, I’ve known Benji since 2014 by both attending the same church. Benji is one of the easiest guys to quickly become friends with. Extremely friendly and attentive to the people around him. Core memories of church events like youth camps or battling on the field/court are things I will cherish forever. His dedication to his studies is admirable, but his dedication to the people he loves is unmatched. Benji has always been someone who shows up for others, makes people feel included, and genuinely cares about those around him. He’s a loyal friend, a great listener, and one of the few people who can be both really encouraging and stupidly competitive at the same time.
Ria Virani
Bridesmaid
I met AJ in 6th grade. AJ is more like my sister than my friend. My Terrible Two. I’ve been with her through all the phases from deciding crazy yearbook outfits to moving into college and finding the perfect partner. I’m so excited to now stand with her as she gets married!