FAQs

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Once all invitations have been mailed, you’ll be able to RSVP right here on our website. This option will become available September 5, 2025. Please be sure to RSVP no later than November 13, 2025 — responses received after this date unfortunately cannot be included in our final guest count.

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Where should we park for the wedding?

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Parking will be available next to the venue Kenneth E. Mitchell School 3001 W Harvard St, Santa Ana, CA 92704 There is plenty of parking, and the lot provides direct access to the venue’s front gate for your convenience.

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Where will the wedding ceremony and reception take place? Is it wheelchair accessible?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be held at the same location. The venue is fully accessible and accommodates guests with disabilities. Heritage Museum of Orange County 3101 W Harvard St, Santa Ana, CA 92704

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Am I allowed to bring additional guests?

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We kindly ask that guests adhere to the names listed on the invitation. Unfortunately, we won’t be able to accommodate additional guests, and we may need to ask anyone not on the list to leave. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation!

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Will alcohol be served at the wedding?

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Yes! We’ll be serving a selection of beer, wine, and signature cocktails during the reception. However, please note that due to city permits and strict venue regulations, no outside alcohol is allowed on the premises—including in vehicles. ***IMPORTANT*** We kindly ask that all guests respect this rule. If anyone is found with outside alcohol OR DRINKING IN THEIR VEHICLES, the event WILL be shut down immediately by venue staff, and all guests will be asked to leave. The venue is located on school district property, which enforces these rules very seriously. Let’s all work together to keep the celebration going—please don’t ruin our wedding. 😊

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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

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To ensure a smooth and respectful start to the ceremony, we recommend arriving at least 30 minutes before the scheduled start time. This will allow you plenty of time to find your seat and settle in without interrupting the ceremony. If you do arrive after the ceremony has begun, we kindly ask that you wait at the front of the venue until the ceremony concludes. ***IMPORTANT*** The event is currently scheduled to begin at 2:30 PM, though this may be subject to change. The official invitation you receive in the mail will include the confirmed start and end times.

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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While we would love to see your POV, we kindly ask that phones be silenced and put away during the ceremony. We want to fully immerse ourselves in this special moment, free from distractions. The only exceptions will be for family members who may not be able to attend in person and will be joining via FaceTime. We appreciate your understanding and cooperation!

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What's the dress code for your wedding?

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Our dress code is black-tie, and we kindly request that gentlemen wear a dark suit with a tie. For ladies, an evening gown or a chic midi- or knee-length cocktail dress would be perfect. We ask that no one wear white, as it is reserved for the bride. Thank you for understanding!

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What is the weather and climate like in the area?

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In early December, Santa Ana typically experiences cool temperatures, with average highs around 68°F and lows around 46°F. As December is the coolest month of the year, we recommend bringing a stylish layer to stay warm while still dressing appropriately for the occasion.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The wedding will be held outdoors, so we recommend dressing warmly while still keeping your outfit elegant.

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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?

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While we won't be providing accommodations for hotel stays, we’ve put together a list of nearby hotels offering special discounted rates for our guests. Simply mention our wedding when booking to receive the discount: Ayres Hotel Costa Mesa-Newport Beach 325 Bristol St, Costa Mesa, CA 92626 Please ask for Kara Kellogg at 714-549-0300 ext. 520 Courtyard Costa Mesa South Coast Metro 3002 S. Harbor Blvd, Santa Ana, CA 92704 Phone: 714-545-1010 ext. 640 Embassy Suites by Hilton Anaheim South 11767 Harbor Blvd, Garden Grove, CA 92840 Phone: 714-383-6722 We hope this makes your stay more convenient!

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Will there be a time gap between your wedding ceremony and reception?

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We’re excited to offer a 1 to 2-hour cocktail hour before the reception, during which you can explore the beautiful Heritage Museum and discover its fascinating history. You’ll also have the chance to watch a live blacksmith demonstration and learn about this craft. It’s a wonderful opportunity to enjoy the venue and immerse yourself in some of its unique offerings!

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What kind of food will be served?

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A buffet-style meal will be served, featuring chicken enchiladas with red sauce and chile verde pork, accompanied by rice, beans, fresh salad, and a side of chips with salsa.