FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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FORMAL INVITATIONS TO RSVP HAVE GONE OUT! PLEASE RSVP BY JAN 5TH

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Is it better to book accommodations near the wedding venue in San Marcos or in Downtown San Diego for convenience?

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We've been letting guests know that if you're planning to attend most of the wedding festivities, it's more convenient to book accommodations in Downtown San Diego. All of the pre-wedding events will be held in the downtown area. The only event taking place in the San Marcos area is the wedding itself on Sunday.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Yes! We’re making a weekend of it! We’ll have welcome drinks at a bar (The Nolen Rooftop) on Thursday, February 12, 2026, if you happen to fly in a little early. Friday, the bridal party will have the rehearsal dinner, and February 14th, 2026, Valentines Day/ Saturday is the big day!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Guest please start to arrive between 3:15PM - 3:45PM Ceremony starts at 3:45PM

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Is there a dress code?

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Dress Code: Black Tie. Please refrain from wearing any shade of white or ivory. Tuxedos are optional — just be sure to dress to impress!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes, while we will not be doing hotel blocks, please see our "travel tab" on the website for a range of hotels we recommend to book that are local the area.

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Are you registered? Where?

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https://www.honeyfund.com/site/RehnInLove

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is parking available for both the ceremony and reception. If needed, you can leave your car overnight and pick it up by 10AM-12PM the next day.

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love the "little ones" in our lives, this is a child free event

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Can I bring a plus 1?

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Our wedding is RSVP-only, so if your invite includes a plus one, absolutely! If not, we’re keeping it intimate, but we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Of course! Please let us know your allergy, and we’ll do our best to accommodate. While we’ll work with our caterer to provide options, we recommend bringing any necessary precautions just in case.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Please note that transportation to and from the hotels won’t be provided, but the venue is about a 35-minute drive from downtown San Diego. There is parking available on-site, and guests are welcome to leave their cars overnight if needed, just be sure to pick them up by 12PM the next afternoon. We recommend coordinating a carpool or ride share (Uber/Lyft) with other guests if possible!