FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than June 22, 2026!

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Can I bring a date?

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No, unless specified significant other or family on the invitation :)

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code is whimsical garden party!! Please wear something that you feel hot and cool in, ideally something bright and colorful. See our mood board for inspiration or text one of the brides with questions!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Hotel recommendations near the venue are listed on the Travel tab!

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Are phones allowed during the ceremony?

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No, this will be a phone-free ceremony. Please leave it in your bag until our officiant tells you otherwise.

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How long can I stay in Spain?

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The estate is reserved from September 19, 2026 to September 25, 2026. Guests who are staying with us are welcome to stay for as little or as long as they'd like, as long as they are present September 21st and 22nd.

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Where is the wedding at?

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The wedding is in Segovia, Spain. Transportation to and from the estate (day of arrival, the day before and the day of the wedding) will be provided! https://www.palaciodehoyuelos.com/como-llegar/

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Are kids allowed?

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No, unless specified :)

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I've never attended a gay wedding before. Are they different?

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The only difference you can expect is that everyone in attendance at our wedding is full of radical love and support for ours and any other same-sex marriage. We recognize that loving us individually is not the same as loving our love. If you find yourself in this boat, we fully support and encourage you to send your love virtually. We kindly ask that there is no talk of religion at the wedding.