FAQs

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Why does the ceremony start so early?

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Our wedding ceremony will take place before Kidase (the Holy Liturgy), which is the traditional practice in the Ethiopian Orthodox Tewahedo Church. In the EOTC, marriage is one of the seven holy sacraments, and the wedding ceremony is considered a sacred act of worship, not simply a civil celebration. Beginning early allows the sacrament of marriage to be performed reverently before the Divine Liturgy.

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Why is the ceremony held in the church?

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In the Ethiopian Orthodox Tewahedo Church, marriage is a holy sacrament blessed before God. The ceremony is deeply spiritual and symbolizes the sacred covenant between husband and wife, witnessed by the church community.

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Why do women need to wear a netela (head covering)?

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Out of reverence for the holiness of the church, women are asked to cover their heads with a netela (traditional white shawl/scarf) or another modest head covering while inside the sanctuary. This is a longstanding practice in Ethiopian Orthodox tradition as a sign of humility and respect during worship.

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Why do we remove our shoes?

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Guests will be asked to remove their shoes before entering the sanctuary as a sign of reverence for the holy space. This practice reflects the biblical tradition of removing shoes on holy ground (as Moses did before the burning bush) and is customary in many Ethiopian Orthodox churches.

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What should I wear?

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Please dress modestly and respectfully for church. * Shoulders and knees should be covered * Women are encouraged to bring a netela or scarf for head covering * Comfortable socks are recommended, since shoes will be removed inside the sanctuary

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What food will be served?

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We’ll be serving traditional Ethiopian cuisine, centered around injera with a variety of flavorful dishes to share. If this is your first time trying Ethiopian food, we’re excited for you to experience it!

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Where should I park?

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Parking is available in the church parking lot, but space is limited and available on a first-come, first-served basis. Additional street parking is available in the surrounding neighborhood. Please be sure to lock your vehicle and leave no valuables visible inside.

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What if I’m unfamiliar with Ethiopian Orthodox traditions?

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You are warmly welcome. The ceremony may include traditions that are new to you, and we invite you to simply observe and experience the beauty and sacredness of this ancient tradition. We’re honored to share this meaningful part of our faith and culture with you.