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FAQs

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What is a nuptial mass?

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A nuptial mass is a wedding ceremony performed in the Catholic Church. Our nuptial mass will be celebrated at St. Elizabeth of Hungary in Denver, a historic mission church founded by the archbishop to assist students on the auraria campus.

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Can I celebrate the mass if I’m not Catholic?

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We welcome all guests to our Catholic wedding ceremony with open hearts! If you're not Catholic, simply respect the Eucharist during communion. When communion is served, you can either remain seated or cross your arms if you approach the altar. For ceremony movements, follow the lead of the bride and groom, who will be positioned in the center aisle. Please know that your presence means the world to us, and we completely understand if you feel uncomfortable attending a Catholic mass. Your love and support matter most to us, regardless of religious differences.

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What is the order of the mass and how long is it?

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Our wedding ceremony will be a beautiful, traditional Catholic Mass lasting approximately one hour. A printed program will guide guests through the liturgy, featuring the mass ordinary chants in Latin. The ceremony will follow this sacred sequence: Entrance Readings Gospel Homily Nuptial Blessing Communion Offertory to Mary Final Blessing and Recessional

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Is recording/photography allowed for the ceremony?

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We have professional videographers and a photographer capturing our ceremony. We kindly ask that you put away your phones and devices during the ceremony to fully experience the moment with us. Photography and videography by guests are welcome during the reception and outside the church.

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Is the church ADA accessible?

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Yes, there is accessible parking nearby the entrance as well as multiple ramps to enter the church.

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How do I know what to say during mass?

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During our wedding mass, participation is entirely optional. We'll provide a physical program to guide you through the ceremony. Our quartet will perform the mass ordinaries in Latin, while the responsorial psalm, blessings, and prayers will be in English. We understand that Catholic traditions and Latin can be unfamiliar, so please feel comfortable simply observing our sacramental union or reflecting quietly if you prefer.

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Are kids welcome?

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We kindly request an adults-only reception to create an elegant evening for our guests. While children are welcome at the ceremony—where close family members will have little ones serve as ring bearers and flower girls—the reception will be a sophisticated, child-free celebration. Please refer to your RSVP for specific details about guest count and attendance.

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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

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For any additional questions, please contact Hannah Hughes, the maid of honor, at +1 (720) 546-6446. We appreciate your understanding in helping to minimize stress for the bride.

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What is the dress code?

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Our wedding calls for formal attire. Ladies are invited to wear elegant long evening gowns, while gentlemen should plan to dress in a classic suit and tie.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we are happy to accommodate most food allergies and dietary restrictions! Please ensure you let us know in advance.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for understanding!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will start at [4pm]. Please arrive 15 minutes before the ceremony to get settled.

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Will there be alcohol?

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We're delighted to share that our bar service will include two complimentary drinks per guest, thoughtfully provided by the father of the groom. During the toast, guests can enjoy champagne or sparkling cider. After the initial complimentary drinks, a cash bar will be available for additional beverages.

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How should I RSVP?

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To RSVP, go to the RSVP page on this website. You may also send your card back after circling a food option. Please submit your RSVP by December 20th so we can plan accordingly!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Parking for our wedding is convenient and accessible. The Oak lot near the church offers limited parking, and we'll have a valet service available at the hotel. Additional parking garages are located nearby. To help reduce congestion, we recommend carpooling or using ridesharing services when possible.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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We haven't reserved a hotel block, but we want to make your stay as convenient as possible. We're happy to provide a discount code to help you save on your accommodations. When booking your room, simply use the code FRIENDS to receive a special rate.