Shoes & Head Coverings: Please remove your shoes before entering any of the halls. A head covering is also required inside—scarves and bandanas work well, and clean ones are available at the entrance. Seating During the Ceremony: Guests will be seated on the floor in the Main Hall. Most people sit cross-legged. As a sign of respect, please avoid pointing your feet toward the Guru Granth Sahib (the Sikh holy scripture). Seating: Traditionally, women sit on the right side and men on the left. That said, sitting with family or friends is perfectly okay, especially for guests unfamiliar with the custom. No Alcohol: Please avoid consuming alcohol before or during the ceremony. Restrooms: Restrooms are located near the Langar Hall, behind the Main Hall. When facing the front of the Langar Hall, they’ll be to your left. Restrooms are also located in the entrance hall. Vegetarian Food: All food served will be vegetarian in keeping with Sikh tradition. Need Help? If you have questions before the event, feel free to reach out! During the ceremony, don’t hesitate to ask someone nearby—everyone will be happy to help.
Indian or Western formal attire is welcome. Since the ceremony will take place in a Sikh temple, we kindly ask that guests dress modestly. Guests will be seated on the floor during the ceremony, so we recommend wearing pants or long dresses for comfort. You'll also need to remove your shoes and cover your head while inside the temple. Feel free to bring a scarf or bandana for your head covering—head coverings will also be available at the temple. Slip-on shoes are a good idea for ease. Men typically wear suits, and traditional Indian attire like kurthas is also welcome. All colors are welcome, but we kindly ask that guests avoid wearing red, white, or solid black if possible (a black suit is perfectly fine).
We encourage guests to dress in Indian attire or black-tie formal wear. Whether you choose a saree, lehenga, sherwani, gown, or tuxedo—feel free to celebrate in style!
Curious about what traditional Indian attire looks like for each event? Here are some suggestions and inspiration to help you plan your outfit: Wedding Ceremony Attire (Modest & Comfortable for Sitting on the Floor): Sharara/Gharara: A long top paired with wide, flowy pants Anarkali: A full-length, gown-style dress worn over leggings Where to Shop for Indian Outfits: Lashkaraa Pernia’s Pop-Up Shop AZA Fashion Etsy Local Indian Clothing Stores
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