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There are A TON of great VRBO's, Air BNB's and other vacation rentals to find in Kihei or Wailea! Please don't feel like you have to stay at the hotel to have the same experience. All beaches are public and that is where people will be most days.
Go and download this travel guide! It's free for our guests and has all the information you could ever need for planning a trip to Maui. https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1jl87JosztcHBT_xxK_rIB8PNdiZhpUUB?usp=drive_link