To KJ, Six years ago, I pulled into my new apartment complex with a trunk full of boxes. I was ready to let go of the past and keep to myself, living out a quiet time in a new space. As I was unloading my car, you pulled up in your old murder mystery car. You offered to help, and my only thought was, "Who is this murdery, weirdo dork?" As any good introvert does, I looked for any way to get out of a social interaction and, for some reason, went with, "This is the last box." I genuinely did not comprehend that you were hitting on me. I did not mean to turn you down so harshly. Oops? Of course, fate would not let that interaction be, and my old roommate just happened to have a Tinder date with your best friend (AKA the best man). You were invited over, and we had a moment of connection. After that, we have had many more moments of connection. I am so grateful that fate (and others) intervened because you are the best thing to have ever happened to me. I knew I loved you when I saw how understanding you were and how willing you were to accept all aspects of me with an open heart. You are incredibly patient with my anxiety and shenanigans, as well as my tendency to overthink every detail. Your intelligence leaves me in awe of how you can puzzle out these chemistry formulas. You demonstrate dedication not only to me but in everything you do, such as pushing yourself to get your PhD. Most importantly, you are kind. You help others whenever possible. Kenneth-John Jack Bell, I am irrevocably in love with you. I am so excited to be yours and for you to be mine.
To Andy, Six years ago, I came home from work in my old Lincoln Town Car and noticed a little Ford Focus full of boxes parked outside my apartment building. As I got out of my car, I spotted you and thought, "Is that cutie my new neighbor?" So, I decided to do the gentlemanly thing and offer an extra hand with carrying the boxes. You immediately told me that the box you had was "the last box." It wasn't. I could see your car was still full, but I took the hint. Little did I know, you were moving in just across the hall from me. The day went on, and all of a sudden, I heard a loud knock on my door. I opened it up to find James asking if I had ice. He was there for a date with your old roommate and got me invited. I finally got to meet you properly, and I still cherish that moment from the first night we met. I am grateful we met, and you have changed my life completely. You have helped me learn so much about myself and constantly pushed me to grow as a person. You have given me endless support through all the ups and downs in my life. You are the most caring person I have ever met, and you have a knack for solving every problem you tackle. I'm in awe every day of your gifts, and I can't wait to continue growing with you. Andy Grace Dockman, I am hopelessly in love with you, and I am excited to spend the rest of my life with you.