We love your kids, we really do but no.
No. Please be advised, should you attempt to bring an uninvited guest both you and your guest will be removed from the festivities and from thenceforth forever be known as dead to us.
Please be advised there will be both a photographer and videographer, dress accordingly.
We figured most people do not know what they want to eat three months in advance, so we are going to let you choose that afternoon.