FAQs
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Where is the wedding?
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Our wedding will be held at The Kelley Farm in Bonney Lake, Washington. The closest airport is Seattle-Tacoma International Airport (SEA), about 45 minutes away. There is free on-site parking for all guests. Rideshares (Uber/Lyft) are available but can be limited late at night, so please plan ahead or arrange a ride in advance.
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Is it an indoor or outdoor wedding?
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If weather permits, our ceremony will be held outdoors on the lawn. October weather in Washington can be unpredictable. If needed, the ceremony location may be moved indoors at the last minute. The reception will be held inside the barn regardless of weather. We recommend dressing warmly
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What is the dress code?
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Formal Attire. For men: Collared button-up shirt required. No jeans. No tennis shoes. Slacks, dress shoes, suits, or sport coats encouraged For women: Heels are welcome-- Block heels, wedges, or dressy flats are great options. Please avoid wearing white, ivory, cream, beige, or anything close to white. October evenings in Bonney Lake get cold after sunset — bring a coat or wrap
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Is this an unplugged ceremony?
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Yes. We are having an unplugged ceremony. We kindly ask that all phones, cameras, and devices are put away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present. We promise to share professional photos and videos afterward.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please plan to arrive 20–30 minutes before the ceremony start time to allow for parking and seating. We plan to begin the ceremony right on time and would love to avoid any interruptions from late arrivals. Thank you for helping us keep this moment smooth and special for everyone.
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Are children invited?
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While we love your little ones, this will be an adult-only celebration. We appreciate you making arrangements to enjoy a night off with us.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by July 4, 2026. You can RSVP using the QR code on the invitation or here on the website.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We wish we could invite everyone’s plus ones, but we had to keep our guest list very tight. Please refer to your invitation to see who is included. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Where should we stay?
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Hotels within 10–15 minutes of the venue: Holiday Inn Express & Suites Sumner - Puyallup Area Hampton Inn & Suites Tacoma/Puyallup Fairfield Inn & Suites Tacoma Puyallup More options listed in the "Travel" page Book early — fall weekends fill quickly in this area.
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What is the venue's alcohol and smoking policy?
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We will be providing drinks, including beer, wine, and signature cocktails for you to enjoy. The Kelley Farm has a strict no outside alcohol policy and a no-shots policy. Outside alcohol is not allowed anywhere on the property. Guests found bringing in outside liquor or attempting to take shots may be fined by the venue and asked to leave. If you need to vape or smoke a cigarette, there is a designated smoking area at the venue. Smoking or vaping is only permitted in this area. Thank you for helping us respect the venue’s rules so we can all have a smooth and fun celebration!
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Do you have a registry?
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Having you celebrate our wedding day with us truly means the world, and your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. In place of a traditional registry, we will have a honeymoon fund available under the Registry tab for anyone who has asked how they can contribute as we begin this new chapter together. We will also be sharing a money dance during the reception — a joyful cultural tradition where guests can share a brief dance with the bride or groom while offering a small cash gift in celebration of the newlyweds. We are so grateful for your love, support, and for simply being part of this special day with us.