FAQs

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Are Kids Welcome?

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We are very sorry, but we are keeping our special day as an adult-only occasion (Ages 18 years and up).

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please, RSVP by September 7th, so we can have an accurate headcount.

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What is the dress code?

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We kindly ask to wear Formal Attire For Women: Evening Gown / Floor-Length Dress For Men: Two or Three-Piece Suit

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Can I bring a Date?

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We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.

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Where to Park?

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St. Joseph Cathedral is located in downtown San Jose. There are parking garages and street parking within walking distance. Please be prepared to pay parking fees if parking at a street meter or parking garage.

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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Cocktail Hour will be held Outdoors Reception will be held Indoors

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Are phones and cameras allowed during the wedding ceremony?

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Please refrain from taking photos during the religious ceremony.

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What do I do at a Catholic Wedding?

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We understand that some of our loved ones are not Catholic. Listed below are some etiquette for Catholic ceremonies. Entering the Church: Guests should be sure to arrive at a Catholic wedding at least 15 minutes early so as not to interrupt the procession down the aisle. Upon entering the church, men should remove their hats. Catholic guests may dip their fingers in the holy water at the entrances and make the sign of the cross to remind themselves of their baptisms. Reciting Prayers: Catholic wedding ceremonies include prayers and traditions specific to the catholic faith. Guests should be prepared to stand, sit, and kneel as prescribed during the service. Receiving Holy Communion: Guests who are Catholic may receive the Holy Communion at the designated time. Guests who are not catholic should NOT receive Holy Communion, they may still proceed to the altar and receive the blessing from the priest. To indicate the desire for the blessing guests should place their arms crossed on their chest and bow their heads down Showing Reverence: All guests regardless of religion should respect the sanctity of the ceremony by maintaining a prayerful disposition. Guests may do this by following along with the prayers/songs and refrain from conversations with one another during the ceremony