One day Wesley was watching his friend Timothy's son play baseball, and Timothy had to deliver a bed to his uncle's house. While I was at work at Subway in Montgomery, NY Timothy delivered a bed to my father's house and spent time talking to my father before coming to my job to get some money. Once Timothy arrived back to Wesley at the ball field, Timothy told Wesley that his cousin was single and talked about what Timothy had talked about with his uncle. Later that evening Wesley sent me a Facebook friend request and we talked through Facebook Messenger and text messages as well as on the phone. We made plans to spend together before Wesley and his family offered me a chance to move up with them to be closer to Wesley and able to spend more. After dating for three years, on December 25, 2016, Christmas Day Wesley asked me to marry him by giving me a necklace with a small knife on if and a ring box with tape on it.