We love your kids, we really do. If you can't find a babysitter, we welcome your littles to our big day too. If they are not listed on your RSVP please please please let us know they will be attending.
If your RSVP says "and Guest" then yes, if not we prefer it was just you. You can always ask though :)
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose