We were both feeling the burn out of dating. Neither one of us were having much luck online and were ready to throw in the towel. We also didn't want to meet people randomly in bars or date friends, so we decided to give the online community one more chance. This time we took some advice that PAYING the fee really does weed out the "Island of Misfit Toys" inhabitants. After texting and talking for over a week, we decided to set up a date. We met at Ham's restaurant in High Point on a Wednesday. By Thursday, we wanted to see each other again. By Saturday, we knew there was nobody else.