FAQs
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Details on the Ceremony
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The Shaffer's-to-be have decided on a small ceremony with only immediate family and close friends, but we are so excited to join everyone on the dance floor at the Shaffer's barn!
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When do I need to RSVP by?
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We ask that you RSVP online no later than July 31st, 2026.
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What if I didn't RSVP in time?
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If we do not receive your RSVP by the date provided, it will automatically be marked "no". We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative that we provide our vendors with a final guest count within the time frame they have given us. Thank you for understanding.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Only guests formally invited on the wedding invitation will be accommodated. If you receive a plus one, they will appear when you RSVP.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! The drinks are on us and provided by upstanding young college men, who will very much appreciate your tips :)
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Is there parking at the Shaffer's?
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No. We kindly ask that you park at the United Methodist Church of the Cross at 236 Otterbein Dr. We are providing shuttles to the Shaffer's Barn and then back to your car.
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What time should I arrive?
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Arrive anytime during cocktail hour! But we kindly ask that you are seated in your assigned seat for the start of the reception at 6:00pm.
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What is the dress code?
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We'd love to see family and friends dressed up for our big day. We are requesting semi-formal attire for the evening. We ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride- whites, ivories, and creams.
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Are kids invited?
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We have decided to keep our reception an adult only event. We hope you understand and enjoy the night off! We can't wait to celebrate with you!
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Where can I stay after the wedding?
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We have a room block at the Quality Inn, as well as bed & breakfast options close to the wedding location. More information can be found on the "Travel" page.