FAQs

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What should I wear?

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Dress code is Sunday best. Our color schemes are pinks and blues, however if you do not have these colors, other neutral colors will suffice.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Not everyone will be able to have a plus one. Please check with the bride and groom if you would like to bring a plus one.

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Where should I park?

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There is parking available within the church parking lot. For the reception, there is street parking available and multiple nearby public parking lots within walking distance. The Son's of Norway parking lot will be reserved for disabled parking.

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes - please notify the bride and the groom if you are bringing kids.

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What is the best airport to fly into and how do we get to Bremerton/Poulsbo?

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We recommending flying into SeaTac airport. You can take the monorail or Uber into Seattle to take the Bremerton ferry. Otherwise, we recommend getting a rental car at the airport to meet all of your transportation needs.

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What should we do during the gap between the ceremony and the reception?

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Please see the "things to do" tab to see Josh and Amber's recommendations for activities in the area!

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What should you do during a catholic wedding ceremony if you are not catholic?

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✅ DO's for Guests at a Catholic Wedding with Mass Arrive Early: Arrive at least 10–15 minutes early. Catholic weddings typically start promptly. Dress Modestly and Respectfully: Choose semi-formal or formal attire that is modest. Shoulders covered, no short skirts or plunging necklines is a good rule, especially inside the church. Silence Your Phone: Turn off or silence your phone before entering the church. Stand, Sit, and Kneel with the Congregation (if comfortable): Catholic Mass involves specific postures. Feel free to follow along if you're comfortable, but no pressure if you are not Catholic. Follow Along Respectfully: Even if you’re not Catholic, follow the flow of the ceremony quietly and respectfully. Participate in Prayers and Hymns (Silently or Respectfully): You are welcome to join in prayers or hymns if you wish, but it’s perfectly okay to just observe. Observe Reverence in the Church: Speak quietly, move slowly, and treat the church space with reverence. Follow Instructions on Communion: If you are Catholic and in good standing, you may receive Communion. Non-Catholics or Catholics not receiving may stay seated or go up with arms crossed over the chest to receive a blessing. Congratulate the Couple Respectfully Afterward: Wait until after the recessional to greet the couple—avoid rushing the altar.

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What should you NOT do during a catholic wedding ceremony if you are not catholic?

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🚫 DON'Ts for Guests at a Catholic Wedding with Mass Don’t Arrive Late: It disrupts the ceremony, especially during a sacred service like Mass. Don’t Use Flash Photography or Record (Unless Permitted): Leave photography to the professionals unless told otherwise. Churches often have strict rules. Don’t Chew Gum, Eat, or Drink in the Church: The sanctuary is a sacred space; food and drink are inappropriate inside. Don’t Receive Communion Unless You're Catholic and Prepared: Catholic Communion is reserved for those who are baptized Catholics in a state of grace. Others should not receive it. Don’t Wear Inappropriate or Revealing Clothing: Even in hot weather, avoid outfits that are too casual, skimpy, or flashy. Don’t Talk During the Service: Even whispered conversations can be distracting. Don’t Treat It Like a Casual Gathering: This is a sacred sacrament and should be approached with respect and reverence. Don’t Disrespect Church Symbols or Space: Avoid leaning on pews, touching religious items, or wandering the sanctuary.