FAQs

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When is the wedding?

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Our wedding will take place on December 20, 2025.

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Where will the wedding ceremony and reception be held?

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The ceremony will be held at The Fisherman's Inn. Their address is 43W901 Main Street Rd Elburn, IL 60119. The reception will follow at the same location.

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Is there a place to stay nearby?

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We currently working on reserving a hotel block for our wedding guests. Please check back for updates regarding this question.

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What is the parking situation for the event?

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We are pleased to offer a convenient shuttle service for our guests. We are currently working on getting all of the details but the shuttle will pick up hotel guests from one or two of the hotels we reserve. The timing of pick up is to be determined but the shuttle will return them to the same location at the end of the evening. We highly encourage all guests to take advantage of this service, particularly if they intend to enjoy any beverages during the event. However, if you choose to drive to the event, ample parking is available at the venue. Please ensure you arrive at the ceremony at least 30 minutes before it begins.

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Is the venue and reception handicap accessible?

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Yes, both our venue and reception are fully accessible for individuals with disabilities. If you have any specific concerns or needs, please don't hesitate to inform either bride.

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When do we need to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by October 31, 2025, to help us finalize our headcount. You can respond directly on our website, return the card included with your formal invitation, or reach out to either bride.

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Do I have to post back my RSVP or can I RSVP online?

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You can RSVP by either sending your response back via post or by RSVPing online, whatever is easier for you! To RSVP on the website, please click the RSVP tab at the top of the page and follow the prompts provided.

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What If I Didn't RSVP In Time?

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If we do not receive your RSVP by the date provided , October 31st, it will be marked as "not attending". We will miss celebrating with you, however, we have to provide final guest counts to vendors within the time frame they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

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Due to the size of our guest list, we will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation. We appreciate your understanding, and we’re looking forward to celebrating together!

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Am I allowed to bring my children?

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While we absolutely adore your little ones, we’ve decided to make our wedding an adult-only event. This way, everyone can unwind and fully enjoy the celebration. We truly appreciate your understanding and hope you can make arrangements in advance to leave the kids at home for this special occasion.

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What is the dress code for your wedding?

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The dress code for our wedding is formal, specifically black tie. Additionally, to create a cohesive and elegant atmosphere, we kindly ask all our guests to wear only the color black. We ask those who are wearing dresses for it to be knee to floor length. We ask for those wearing button ups for the shirts to be white and the jackets black. If no jacket is desired to be worn, please wear a black button up. We ask that other accessories, like shoes, to be in neutral colors like the color of nude, black, or white. If wearing jewelry, please keep the jewelry to colors like silver, gold, or rose gold. We appreciate your understanding and can't wait to see everyone dressed to impress!

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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

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We kindly ask that all guests arrive at least 30 minutes prior to the ceremony. This will ensure everyone is settled in their seats 15 minutes before we begin. During this time, you’ll have the chance to take in the beautiful decor, enjoy some lovely prelude music, read through the ceremony program, and catch up with other guests. If guests arrive after the ceremony has begun, we will kindly ask them to wait outside in the foyer until the ceremony has concluded. They then are welcomed to join for cocktail hour.

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Will there be a rehearsal dinner, and if so, who is invited?

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Yes, we will host a rehearsal dinner on December 19, 2025 at a to be determined time and place. This gathering is exclusively for the wedding party and immediate family. We will share additional details with the invited guests. Thank you for your understanding.

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I am invited to attend the rehearsal dinner, what should I wear?

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The dress code for the rehearsal dinner is semi-formal. Please choose an outfit that is both stylish and comfortable for the occasion.

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Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?

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Your presence at our wedding means the world to us! If you wish to bless us with a gift feel free to choose something from our Amazon or Zola registry, which offers convenient delivery. We’ll also have a lovely card box available at our reception for any cards you’d like to share.

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Will there be other events to attend on the wedding weekend?

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Yes, we’re excited to announce that we’ll be hosting a post-wedding brunch at a to be determined location for all our guests. We’d love to have everyone join us for one final celebration before we head off!

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What should I wear to the post-wedding brunch?

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The dress code for the post-wedding brunch is relaxed and informal. Feel free to wear something comfortable yet stylish, suitable for a casual gathering with friends and family.

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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We kindly request an unplugged wedding ceremony to ensure that our guests can fully immerse themselves in the moment and to allow our professional photographer and videographer to capture the best possible images without distractions from devices. However, we encourage you to take out your phones during the reception to capture all the fun and memories!

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what food will be served and what if I have dietary restrictions?

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We are excited to offer a delicious menu for our wedding celebration, featuring a variety of dishes to cater to different tastes. If you have any dietary restrictions or specific preferences, please let us know in advance. We will do our best to accommodate your needs. You can indicate your dietary requirements when you RSVP, or feel free to reach out to Amber or Caroline directly for any special requests.

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Will There Be An Open Bar?

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Yes, the drinks are on us and the hangover is on you - get ready to celebrate! Please drink and act responsibly and prioritize using the shuttle as your transportation or arrange a ride back to where you are staying if you plan on drinking. We want all our loved ones to get home safe.

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What time does the reception end?

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The reception will end at 9pm. We hope you can join us for the entire celebration!

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Who can I contact if I have more questions?

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If you have any further questions or concerns that were not addressed on this page, please feel free to reach out to either brides. Amber's phone number is 217-816-4658 and Caroline's phone number is 847-420-4931.