We love your kids - we really do but we would prefer for our wedding to be an adult only event.
If your invitation says "and guest" then yes, if not, then we would prefer it was just you.
DRESS TO IMPRESS - but we want you to be comfortable. This is going to be fun, dress up and come and have a great time.
It is very important that you RSVP so we can be prepared for all of our guest.