Bride
The cookie table is as much part of the Pittsburgh culture as Heinz ketchup and Primanti brothers. The cookies are homemade by mothers, grandmas, sisters, aunts, cousins, and friends. The cookie table is truly a gift of love. No one knows of the exact origin of this tradition but in Pittsburgh, people don't ask "how was the wedding?" they ask "how was the cookie table?" We invite any of our guests who would love to share their love to bring some cookies to place on the cookie table ! If you are interested in baking for the table, let us know!
Groom
The Horah is a circle dance that is traditionally a part of Jewish weddings and other celebrations. The Horah has roots in Eastern European and Israeli folk traditions. While dancing the Horah, a circle is created which symbolizes the unity and interconnectedness of the community as everyone participates together. The circle represents the cyclical nature of life and the continuity of the Jewish people, as well as the community’s support and love for the newlyweds. The act of lifting the bride and groom onto chairs represents their elevated status, their connection to God and celebration of their marriage. Young or old, everyone is welcome and encouraged to participate!
Bride
The Bridal Dance has many different variations across different cultures all with different names. Sometimes referred to as the "Money Dance", the "Apron Dance", or "Dollar Dance" and is found in Poland, Greece, Latin America, and Eastern Europe. In traditional Pittsburgh weddings, the bridal dance occurs at the end of the night offering everyone attending the chance to dance with the Bride one last time before she is taken away by her Groom. The Maid of Honor dances first with the Bride and then adorns an apron to accept a dollar as participants come forward for their turn around to the classic Polka song, Pani Mloda Polka. Following the Maid of Honor is the bridal party who then take position to offer each person either a shot of alcohol or a slice of cake after they finish their turn with the Bride. Throughout the process all other guests are trying to keep the Groom away in hopes that they get their chance to dance before he gets to her. This tradition brings a meaningful and joyous night to it's end and we welcome and hope that everyone who comes to our wedding joins in!