FAQs

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What am I supposed to wear?

Answer

The dress code is evening cocktail attire, all black! Shades of dark gray are okay too. We are very appreciative of your flexibility here! Our hope is that everyone already has something fitting this request in their closet. Doing this allows the brides freedom to play with color while still standing out in the crowd.

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Where should I park?

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The Scottish Rite has an attached parking garage! The garage address is 3634 Olive St., St. Louis, MO 63108. The skywalk for the building is on level 3 of the garage. Parking is free for all guests. There will be a show at the Fox that evening, so just tell the garage attendant that you are there for an event at the Rite! While the Rite's address is on Lindell, the only available entrance to the venue will be through the parking garage.

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When should I get there?

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The ceremony will begin at 6:30pm, and doors will open at 6pm.

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Is the venue ADA compliant?

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YES! The building offers elevators, ramps, and accessible restrooms. If you think you could benefit from any accommodations, please reach out!

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Are kids invited?

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In general, we are not inviting children under the age of 16 to our wedding. However, we don't want this to prevent any of our loved ones from attending. If you are traveling, don't have childcare, or just want your littles by your side for the festivities, reach out to us! Please note we will not be able to guarantee that music and other elements of the reception are suitable for children.

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Are you changing your last name(s)?

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Yep! We will both be changing our last names to "Manley-Stewart".

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Will the corgis be there?

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No. They are loud, covered in fur, and would have a horrible time.