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Transportation will be provided to Downtown Raleigh and the Wingate by Wyndham hotel AFTER the wedding only.
Transportation will be provided to Downtown Raleigh and the Wingate by Wyndham hotel AFTER the wedding only.
January 15, 2022
Raleigh, NC

Alyssa & William Tyler

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William Tyler Swain

and

Alyssa Lawrentz

January 15, 2022

Raleigh, NC

Our Story

I introduced myself to a very shy Tyler in 2002, when his family made their move to the Outer Banks, NC. He looked at me like a deer in headlights, probably because I am, and have always been, a bit over the top (#SorryImNotSorry). Our actual friendship began late in our high school career, but once we became friends I was hooked! I always looked forward to meeting up at his house for a nice, competitive game of ping pong. We went our seperate ways in college- Tyler moved to Greenville, and I moved Raleigh. That didn't keep us apart. Tyler was always the first person I called when I went home to the Outer Banks, and he always made time for me, whether it was just meeting up for coffee, a quick lunch, or a trip to a local putt putt. Sometimes I convinced him to join my family for holiday outings (ask me about a super cute video my niece took circa 2015). Sweet Tyler asked me to date him at one point, but I said no (whoops!) for many reasons, but the most important being that we would be long distance and I definitely didn't want to ruin the amazing friendship we had. Over the next couple years, I couldn't stop thinking about that and finally one day I finally came to my senses and knew Tyler was the one for me. We went to lunch during one of my OBX visits, and mid-conversation I said "well, you should just date me (hair flip)", to which Tyler laughed in my face. After Tyler realized I wasn't laughing he said "Oh, you weren't joking?" I said "Well, I wasn't but..." and then we more or less changed the subject. I was so embarrassed!! It only took a couple days for my comment to sink in before Tyler said "Yeah, let's try this out." And now, here we are. Finally getting married after all these years. Tyler and I are the best of friends, and we hardly share a dull moment. We can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together, and can't wait to celebrate with all of our friends and family <3

For all the days along the way
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