Frequently Asked Questions
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Are kids welcome?
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Although we love your little ones, we hope you can enjoy a night off to celebrate with us! We kindly ask that only adults are in attendance, as this is an 18+ wedding and we are not making any exceptions. Thank you for understanding!
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Can I bring a plus-one?
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While we would love to offer a plus-one to all in attendance, we are unable to do so at this time. Our friends and family who have been given a plus-one will see options for both themselves and "Guest" when submitting an RSVP.
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Is there a deadline to rsvp?
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Yes! Please make sure to RSVP before October 3rd.
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Is there a dress code?
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Yes! The dress code is Formal: Gothic, dark, and elegant. We are looking for darker, moody colors, but don't be afraid to add a little bit of flair. If you're not sure what to wear, black is a safe color. Just make sure you're comfortable enough to dance! For the ladies, you can wear anything from a sophisticated evening gown to a fun, dark colored midi. For the gentlemen, you can wear anything from a three-piece suit to slacks and a blazer. Active duty or veteran friends and family are not required to be in uniform. If you're like Alyssa and feel the constant need for dress code approval for weddings, don't hesitate to reach out! :)
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Is there going to be a costume party?
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No. Although it is Halloween, we kindly ask that you attend without a costume. (Plus, it's a little hard to boogie if you're dressed up as Shrek...)
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Will the event be inside or outside?
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Both! Our ceremony will be held outside, so make sure to choose shoes (or heels) that will be comfortable for you to wear in grass. Our cocktail hour and reception will primarily be inside with the option to go outside whenever you please!
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What time should I arrive at the venue?
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Our ceremony will start promptly at 3pm, so please make sure to arrive at the venue 15-30 minutes prior! Any guests that arrive after the ceremony starts will not be granted access to the ceremony. If you are unable to attend the ceremony, or arrive late, that's okay! You can join us at our cocktail hour & reception :)
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Will dinner be served at the reception?
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Yes! We will have Mediterranean food, served buffet-style. Entrées include chicken kebobs, falafel, and beef & lamb gyros.
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Will there be any vegan, vegetarian, or gluten-free options available?
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Yes! Alyssa has Celiac so we know how challenging it is to find options that suit your lifestyle or dietary restrictions! Please make sure to note any when you RSVP.
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What are the closest airports?
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Chattanooga Metropolitan Airport and Knoxville Airport are both approximately an hour from our venue in Etowah. Other options include Hartsfield-Jackson in Atlanta (2.5 hours) or Nashville International (3 hours).
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Do you have a hotel block?
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No. We recommend looking into hotels in Athens or exploring Airbnb, VRBO, or cabin rentals somewhere close to the venue.
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Is parking available at the venue?
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The venue has plenty of parking available. For our guests who intend to drink, however, please arrive with a designated driver or take an Uber/Lyft/etc.
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Is the wedding location wheelchair accessible?
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Yes, however, the ceremony will be held in grass. There is a ramp to enter the reception as well as wheelchair-accessible bathrooms.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! We will serve beer, wine, cocktails, and non-alcoholic beverages at no cost to our guests. We will have multiple bartenders, so make sure to bring a little cash if you would like to tip! :)
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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No, we have a honeymoon fund instead! By the time of our wedding, we will have been living together for more than 4 years, and we have pretty much everything we need (Alyssa is impulsive and buys everything she wants as soon as she sees it). However, if you would like to help, you can donate by going to our "Honeymoon Fund" page :)
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Is this a religious event?
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No. Our ceremony will include some religious elements, as Shane is Catholic, but this is not a nuptial mass. You are not expected to participate in any readings or prayers if you do not wish! :)
