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If you have any other questions other than those listed here, please feel free to reach out to Alyssa or Paul.
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When should I RSVP by?

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We will update this answer once we get closer to sending out formal invitations! For now, just stay tuned!

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What should I wear?

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The dress code for our wedding will be cocktail attire/semi-formal! Cocktail dresses, midi dresses, trendy jumpsuits, suits with tie, slacks, and dress shirts are required. *Women - please try to avoid the color white* *The bridal party will be wearing sky blue*

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Can I bring a date?

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Unfortunately, due to budget and space limitations, we simply can't afford for all of our lovely guests to bring a guest of their own. Therefore, we regretfully ask our guests to please not bring a plus one, unless otherwise stated on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love and adore all of your little ones, we politely and lovingly inform you that this is an adult only event (excluding those within the wedding party or immediate family). We hope you can still join us and take this as an opportunity to let your hair down. Enjoy the open bar and have some fun!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is a parking lot at the venue available for guests. However, we do not support our guests drinking and driving, so please make sure you have accommodations if you plan to enjoy our open bar! For those staying within our hotel block at Pier 4, transportation will be provided to and from the venue!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00pm, and we ask that all guests arrive by 4:30pm to allow everyone to get seated and comfortable!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you! We also want to emphasize that we do not support our guests drinking and driving under any circumstances!

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We want our guests to be fully in the moment with us, so we request that our ceremony be an unplugged ceremony! We hope you can respect our wishes to not have photos taken on your phones! Our photographer will be capturing all the special moments during the ceremony, and we will happily share them with anyone once we receive them!

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Will the ceremony be indoors or outdoors?

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We are planning for the ceremony as well as cocktail hour to be outside. Early May is still a little bit chilly, especially down the shore, so please plan accordingly in case you are easily cold! Of course, we cannot predict or control the weather, so in the event of rain the ceremony will be moved indoors.

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