Alyssa joined the co-ed club field hockey team during her freshman year at the University of Maryland. Jacques was the club president — and we quickly became best friends!
We visited each other almost every weekend after classes ended. This was when we officially started dating!
Jacques graduated with his master's degree. His family came to visit from South Africa and met Alyssa for the first time. He'd later earn his Ph.D. at UMD.
We traveled to South Africa over winter break, despite only being together about 6 months. It was a big gamble — but the best decision we made! It was priceless time with Jacques' family.
Throughout all of Covid, Jacques lived with the Kraus House (thanks Mike & Lisa!) while UMD held virtual classes. This is when he truly became a part of the family!
We moved in with our college best friends, Stef and Steven. We spent all of Alyssa's junior and senior year together in an apartment.
With his own family in South Africa, Jacques spent holidays with the Kraus House
Jacques surprised Alyssa with a trip to Las Vegas for her 21st birthday. It was our first solo vacation together.
We secretly went engagement ring shopping in NYC but didn't tell anyone! We ended up coming back years later to officially select the ring.
Alyssa graduated from UMD, and we moved into our first apartment in Rockville, MD.
We added a new member to our family, Winston!
Jacques graduated with his Ph.D. and we moved to our current apartment in Gaithersburg, MD.
We got engaged in Carmel by the Sea, California! Let the wedding planning begin!