FAQs
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How should I refer to the couple?
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Please refer to Mara and Wesley as the bride and groom, respectively. The wedding itself can be described as a gay or lesbian wedding. Additional information about the titles and pronouns of the wedding party is available on the "wedding party" tab of this website.
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Are you registered? Where?
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Our registry will be available on the registry page of this website for those who wish to send a gift!
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When should I RSVP by?
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Guests should plan to RSVP to the ceremony and reception using this website by October 1st. While RSVPs are not required for other events, guests are welcome to indicate their attendance at the Halloween Party and Brunch.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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The ceremony location does not have a parking lot, but parking is permitted on the road within Floydsberg Cemetery. Two-way parking is permitted on the road in front of the Chapel and one-way parking is permitted on the road to the side of the Chapel. Free street parking is also available for the reception. The venue recommends parking on or near Walnut Avenue, the side street next to the building, for ease of access. Downtown has a significant amount of free parking available, especially in the afternoons/evenings. If necessary, there are also two public parking lots available within two blocks.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Guests should plan to arrive at the ceremony venue by 4:40, as the ceremony will begin at 5.
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Is there a dress code?
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Semi-formal or festive wear is requested for the ceremony and reception on Saturday. Halloween costumes are STRONGLY encouraged for the party on Friday night. If you are unsure about your outfit, feel free to contact the groom for approval or feedback. We want all of our guests to feel confident and comfortable as we celebrate together!
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Is transportation provided to and from the ceremony/reception?
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No, but guests are welcome to reach out to Elizabeth, the mother of the groom, at 502.310.1172 for assistance with carpooling or transportation information.
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Is there going to be an open bar?
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No. However, there will be a cash bar available at The Gatewood. We recommend that guests who would like to imbibe bring $10-$15 to the reception.
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Is the ceremony really in a cemetery?
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Yes! Floydsburg Cemetery is an active cemetery, and the Chapel hosts funerals as well as weddings. Wedding ceremonies/pictures are not allowed outside of the chapel and its grounds in order to show respect for those interred onsite.
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Can I bring a date?
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All invitees are named on the invitation. If you believe your partner or family member was left off by mistake, feel free to reach out.