FAQs

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Can I have a plus one?

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Unfortunately, due to limited seating, everyone with a +1 on their invitation will only be allowed to bring a guest.

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Is there a dress code?

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We ask that everyone dress semi-formal! For ladies, cocktail dresses or dressy jumpsuits! For gentlemen, suits, sport coats, or dress shirts with slacks are encouraged. Or wear your Sunday best! We recommend avoiding casual wear such as jeans, shorts, t-shirts, or athletic shoes.

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How do I RSVP?

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To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type the name(s) listed on your invitation.

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, unless your children are listed on your invitation when you RSVP, we ask that our wedding be an adults-only celebration, with the exception of children in our close family and wedding party. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin at 4:30pm, please arrive at least 20 minutes prior to the ceremony to park and find your seat.

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Where is the ceremony and reception?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour and reception will take place at Whispering Oaks Event Venue in Julian, NC. The ceremony will take place outside under a covered area. The cocktail hour and reception will be indoors!

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Where should I stay?

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Check out the "Travel" page on our site for more information! Unfortunately, Julian's closest hotels are local of Burlington or Greensboro, NC and are roughly each under 30 minutes away! We have listed some hotels for you to choose from.

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Is there parking onsite?

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Yes! There is designated parking at our venue that will be reserved for guests. Our venue is also handicap accessible.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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Your presence will be greatly missed! If you are unable to attend, kindly inform us at your earliest convenience so that we can make the necessary arrangements.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by August 26th, 2026. All RSVP's received after this date will be marked as declining; we will be sending final headcount to our vendors following this deadline. We will miss celebrating with you but we must provide total guests counts to our vendors in a timely manner.

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Will there be a bar?

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Yes, the drinks are on us, the hangover is on you - get ready to celebrate. We will be serving beer, wine and seltzers!

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!