FAQs
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Can I bring children or a plus one?
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Due to the limited space inside the Lapham-Patterson House, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for understanding!
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Do you have a hotel block for guests?
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We did not block out rooms, so feel free to book a room where you feel most comfortable. See the Travel tab for some hotel suggestions in the area.
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I won't be able to attend the wedding, is there any other way I can watch the ceremony?
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Yes! We will be live streaming our ceremony for our beloved friends and family who aren't able to attend in-person. The ceremony will be streamed through a platform called Eventlive. If you would like to watch the ceremony via the livestream, see this link! https://evt.live/wagnerwebsterwedding
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Will there be a Rehearsal Dinner?
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Yes, you will be informed if your attendance is requested at the Rehearsal Dinner. The Dinner will take place on Friday, April 10th at The Plaza Restaurant in Thomasville. For questions about the Rehearsal Dinner, please message Lisa Wagner at (229) 834-2311. If you received an invitation to the Rehearsal Dinner, we request that you RSVP by March 21, 2026.
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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We kindly request that family and guests do not take photos during the event. We have a professional photographer to capture every moment so everyone can unplug and enjoy!
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Will there be alcohol?
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We will provide beer and wine to guests of drinking age. A Cash Bar is not permitted at this venue. There will be a limit of two (2) alcoholic drinks per guest. No alcohol will be served after 9:30 pm to comply with the venue's policy. We thank you for your understanding and cooperation!
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, there will be parking available at the field behind the Lapham-Patterson House. Carpooling is encouraged when possible.
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What is the dress code?
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The dress code is comfortable. Please dress comfortably and appropriately for the occasion. We ask that guests abstain from wearing jeans and T-shirts. Ladies, we kindly ask that you reserve white/ivory colored clothing for the Bride. The average temperature in Thomasville in April for a typical day ranges from a high of 79°F (26°C) to a low of 56°F (14°C). Some would describe the temperature to be pleasantly warm. The general area may also feel breezy. The average relative humidity level in April is around 65–70%. This can be described as moderately humid and is a bit lower than the muggier summer months.
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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We are so grateful for your love and support! We've been living together for a while now, so we don't have a traditional registry. However, if you wish to give a gift, a monetary contribution would be a wonderful way to help us build our future.
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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?
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For any questions or concerns, please feel free to text Allison at (229) 834-4161!
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What should I know about this venue before arriving?
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Guests are not permitted in any roped off or closed rooms within the house. Smoking and vaping are not permitted at this venue. There are no designated smoking areas on the property. Items such as glitter, confetti, rice, streamers, and sparklers are not allowed on the property. No pets or animals, other than service animals, are allowed on the premises.