FAQs

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What is the schedule for wedding weekend?

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Friday: Welcome Reception 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM at Cape Kiawanda Community Center – Kids welcome! We've got incredible local catering, an open mic for anyone brave enough to share a speech (yes, say something, please), and special takeaways for everyone. Come hungry, come ready to mingle! Saturday: The Big Day Shuttle Departure Times: 2:45 PM & 2:55 PM from Cape Kiawanda Community Center Park at the Community Center (overnight parking is totally fine if you're celebrating properly!) DO NOT BE LATE for shuttles – please arrive 10 minutes before shuttle departure time, shuttles will leave without you if you are late!!! For your safety and ours, we're not allowing guest parking at the venue (with very few exceptions who have communicated with us ahead of time) Saturday Night: After Party Sportsman's Pub n Grub (right across the river from the Community Center) The bar will be closed to everyone but us! Come ready to dance, eat amazing late-night food, and celebrate until we can't anymore. This is where the real magic happens, so don't even think about skipping it. Getting Home: We've arranged late-night rides that are available to everyone (small cash/Venmo fee). There’s no Uber here, but we've got you covered!

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Where the heck are you asking me to travel to?

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The Oregon Coast is a beautiful, vast, and wild stretch of the Pacific Northwest, and we’re setting up our wedding home base in our coastal hometown of Pacific City. A small drinking town with a fishing problem, Pacific City is about a 2-hour drive from the Portland Airport. The drive in from any direction is a treat for the senses as you’ll pass through sprawling wine country, tree-lined rivers, and some of the happiest cows you’ll ever see (take that, California). Whatever direction you come from, there’s a 100% chance you won’t forget the first sighting of our Haystack and the gorgeous, open beaches.

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How do I get to Pacific City?

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You've got two awesome routes to choose from, and maps will tell you they're basically the same travel time. Here's how to pick your perfect path: The Wine Country Route (OR 18W → OR 22W) Perfect for: First-timers, Instagram opportunities, and staying connected Wind through Oregon's stunning wine country and rolling farmland dotted with adorable roadside stands. You'll have cell service for most of the journey (because we know you'll want to post those vineyard shots). Fair warning: if you're prone to carsickness, this curvy finale might not be your jam. The Forest Adventure (OR 6W through Tillamook Forest) Perfect for: Nature lovers, digital detoxers, and cheese enthusiasts Once you hit the forest, say goodbye to cell service and hello to breathtaking mountain views and towering trees. It's peaceful, scenic, and absolutely stunning. Plus, you can stop at the famous Tillamook Creamery along the way (highly recommended!). SHUTTLE: A couple of shuttle options will get you into or close to Pacific City from Portland if you prefer not to drive. PLEASE NOTE these do require advance planning and/or booking, and you should carefully align with your arrival and departure times. - Caravan Shuttle, https://www.caravanshuttle.com/ This option has one pick-up per day at the Portland Airport baggage claim by 1pm and drives from PDX to Lincoln City, about 35 minutes from Pacific City. - NW Connector Shuttle: https://nwconnector.org/routes/coastliner-tillamook-portland This option is through the county’s public shuttle service and costs only $15 each way. To ride, pay attention to the pickup times in Portland, as there are two per day (11:20am and 6:30pm). You will have to take an Uber/transit from PDX to Union Station. They are lenient on how much baggage you can bring as long as you keep it within your seat area. The shuttle will drop you off in Tillamook, where you can catch a coastline connector (this requires planning, but the connector is only $1 add'l).

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When and where should I book my accommodations?

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Pacific City, OR is the home base -- please book your accommodations there. We recommend booking as soon as possible! Pacific City offers a range of options, from charming hotels to cozy Airbnbs, but it’s a popular beach destination, especially in the summer, and places fill up quickly. Waiting too long could make it challenging to find something nearby. If you’re having trouble finding affordable options, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us— we’ve set aside a few resources to help ensure you can join us and enjoy the wedding festivities. Also, a quick heads-up: while some nearby towns might look close on a map, getting to and from them often involves small, winding highways or backroads. These roads are usually unlit at night and not ideal for relaxing travel after a day of celebrating. Staying in or near Pacific City will make your trip much more enjoyable and stress-free!

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Are kids allowed?

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While we absolutely love your little ones, the venue’s isolated location, easy access to the beach, and nearby cliffs make it less than ideal for kids. We kindly ask that you leave the kiddos at home to ensure everyone’s safety and peace of mind. (Fur babies are also not allowed, for the record...) If you’re planning to bring children over the age of 1 along to the Oregon Coast, we’d be happy to help connect you with trusted and vetted babysitting options in Pacific City and/or family/friends -- reach out with us if you'd like to learn more about options. We are making exceptions for newborn babies who need to stay close to mom, but we do ask that you let us know in advance if you’ll be bringing your tiny nugget along. We’re so looking forward to a night of toasting, dancing, and getting loose with you -- and we want all our guests to be as relaxed and ready to party as possible! Let us know of any questions you may have.

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What should I wear?

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We’re not looking for gala attire — this is a celebration where we want you to feel comfortable and let your personality shine through in your outfit! Think “elevated garden party meets Pacific Northwest aesthetic”— a mix of vibrant colors, fresh wildflower-inspired tones, and relaxed sophistication. Evenings can get chilly with the sea breeze, so we recommend layering to stay cozy after sunset. Since the wedding will be both indoors and outdoors, and the grounds can be soft and hilly, we suggest wearing flats or wedge heels for easy walking (and to avoid leaving your own divot trail!).

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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It’ll be a mix of both! We’ve chosen a beautiful seaside Boy Scout camp as our venue. The ceremony will take place outdoors, offering gorgeous views and fresh ocean air, while the reception and dancing will be indoors. Late July in Oregon usually brings warm days, but evenings can cool down quickly and might even come with a touch of rain (it is Oregon, after all!). We recommend dressing in layers so you’re ready to enjoy the festivities comfortably, no matter the weather.

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How do I get to and from the wedding venue?

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For the safety and convenience of everyone, we kindly ask that guests, with very few exceptions, do not plan to drive themselves to the venue. The location is isolated and rural, and the roads can be challenging to navigate — especially at night, as they have very little lighting. We will be providing shuttles to and from the venue, with clear and easy pick-up and drop-off points in central Pacific City. Details about shuttle times and locations will be shared closer to the date so you can relax and enjoy the celebration without worrying about transportation!

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What is the weather like in Pacific City?

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It is Oregon Coast summer, which means sunny and cool. During the day, temperatures are in the low-to-mid 60s, while at night temps can drop down into the 50s and high 40s. We recommend you bring layers to bundle up if you get chilly (especially you desert dwellers).

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Can I take pictures with my phone?

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Absolutely – please bring your phone to capture all the post-ceremony magic! We’ll be begging for those pics right after. However, we kindly ask that the ceremony itself be phone-free. Once the vows are finished and we share our first kiss, you’re welcome to snap away, but we’d love for everyone to be fully present during the ceremony. Don’t worry – we’ll make sure there’s a drink in your hand to fill the void. Thanks for helping us create a truly special and unplugged moment!

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Are there other wedding-related events to know about (like a welcome party or day-after breakfast)?

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Yes! We’re planning some added festivities to make the celebration even more special. We’ll host a welcome reception the night before the wedding so everyone can mix, mingle, and kick off the fun together. After the reception, we’ll also host a late night after-party in Pacific City. Details for these events will be shared closer to the date, but if you’re wondering whether to pack a few extra outfits, our advice is: grab the bigger suitcase and say “yes” to the (extra) dress! Find more details on the "Schedule" page of this website.

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Are you accepting gifts? Do you have a registry or a honeymoon fund?

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Yes, we are! Your presence is the greatest gift, but if you'd like to contribute, we primarily ask for support for our honeymoon fund to help us create unforgettable memories. Access our honeymoon fund via Zola or our Williams Sonoma and Amazon registries here: https://www.zola.com/wedding/allegraandconstance/registry Of course, gifts are absolutely not required — we’re incredibly grateful for the generosity, effort, and love it takes for you to join us and celebrate this special weekend!