It will be a cross between a talk show and a bonfire circle. We will eat and drink, and then say some words, followed by dancing and more socializing. Y'all might have a chance to participate, if you choose. We are developing our own version of a ceremony. It will be a little bit familiar, a little bit fresh.
Casual festive is what we want. If you like your Gumby tie, wear it. If you like your spandex jumpsuit, holla! We are debating our choices as bride and groom, but there will be no white gown or tuxedo involved.
Besides food, drink, dancing, socializing, and entertaining and heartwarming vows, there will be some classic cornhole and oversized connect four for those who need a more interactive experience. There's also a (shhhhh) secret room with a roulette table.
1. If Alison starts dancing by you, you have a sacred obligation to dance with her. 2. Kids cannot have any bloody marys or mimosas. How much juice they can have and whether or not they can have coffee is at the discretion of their grown ups. 3. The most important rule, the NUMBER ONE rule, ignoring that I put this last, is that you come with open hearts full of love and support while we unify this family bond.
The funny truth is that we met a few days before the 2016 election. It's already been a constant part of our story, so we are leaning in. Plus, collective action! Visit your ballot drop off location on your way to the wedding. https://kingcounty.gov/en/dept/elections/how-to-vote/ballots/return-my-ballot/ballot-drop-boxes
UPDATE: We rented the parking lot across from Imperia where there are about 30 spots. Otherwise, yep, it'll probably be a pain in the bumper, but less so given that it'll be late morning on a Sunday. There's a small paid lot nearby, and lots of street parking down Eastlake Ave.