We worked in the same restaurant where he was a cook, and I was a server. I'll spare you the details but we did not, exactly, get along. Fast forward a few months or so, I was out with my friend at a bar when Jude showed up. Since I was a couple of drinks in, I decided to confront him with the question "Why don't you like me?!" To my complete shock his response was "But I DO like you!" I was skeptical, but we hung out a few times casually with mutual friends... then we went on a few dates... then we went to a party where we kicked everyone's butt at Cornhole (this is where it got good and I fell for him) And now, seven wonderful years later, I get to marry my best friend