This is the most common question we get! You can basically wear whatever you want (within reason). Indian outfits are definitely encouraged, but not required. Here's some ideas: This is how google describes a saree "an un-stitched stretch of woven fabric arranged over the body as a robe, with one end attached to the waist, while the other end rests over one shoulder as a stole (shawl), sometimes baring a part of the midriff" If you are interested in wearing one, the main ceremony is probably the best time to do it. It's a small event and you will be pretty stationary for it. Don't worry about how to wear it, we will organize for someone to help you get dressed. It is not the easiest thing to wear, but we really think you will be fine. # Lehenga A lehenga is a floor length skirt and blouse with a veil. # Salwar Kameez Salwar Kameez is a two piece outfit - long tops and flowy pants, with an optional veil. # Kurti Leggings These are probably your most comfy option. It's a combination of a long top and leggings or jeans. These can be as grand or simple as you want. # Indo-Western wear To improve the rewearability factor of the clothes you buy, you could explore this trendy genre. We've seen a lot of fun options in stores recently. # Western Clothing There are no real rules for clothes, please wear whatever you are comfortable with even if it is not Indian. There are no strict instructions for modesty or colors. Just don't do anything too risque - south Indians are fairly modest folk but love to be fashionable, and choose colors over solid black and white outfits - they are usually associated with mourning. # Jewelry Jewelry is highly encouraged! Indian jewelry tends to be big and flashy, and it is possible to get "imitation" jewelry as well for a fraction of the cost.
There are not as many diverse options for the men as there are for the women, sorry. You could always wear your favorite suit, but if you want to do something Indian, you do have options. # Kurta with Leggings The male version of the Kurti, the Kurta is like a long, flowey shirt. They are typically sized by shoulder lengths. Frankly, this is probably your best option. # Kurta with Dhoti A dhoti is the male equivalent of a saree and might not be the most comfortable to wear and keep on. So you may want to do leggings or jeans instead. # Western Clothing For any of the events, but especially the reception, a suit is perfectly acceptable.
It is recommended to be up-to-date on all of your vaccinations, including COVID-19. You may be required to show proof that you have been vaccinated against Yellow Fever, and may also be required to show proof of a negative COVID PCR test. The guidelines tend to flucuate with the times, so definitely keep an eye on things. Additionally, if you are traveling elsewhere in India, there may be further considerations such as Malaria. If in doubt, we defer to the CDC's guidelines: https://wwwnc.cdc.gov/travel/destinations/traveler/none/india
Traffic in India is absolutely insane. Any Indian will tell you as much. Do NOT, under any circumstance, even consider attempting to drive. Besides the fact that India drives on the left side of the road and most cars have manual transmissions, traffic laws in India are more like "guidelines" or "suggestions." Please, we beg you, leave the driving to the experts!
# Water Tap water in India is not potable - at a minimum, it needs to be filtered. We recommend everyone drink exclusively bottled water as much as possible. We will also have water available at all of the events. # Food Indian food is some of the best in the world! That said, you have to be VERY careful with what you eat, particularly with regards to water, which is typically the easiest way to get food poisoning. The rules are the same that you should follow in any foreign country - drink only bottled water, don't eat raw vegetables, be wary of street food (even though its incredible), and minimize your chutney consumption. Unfortunately, there are decent odds of getting food poisoning, so its best to be prepared - make sure to bring your preferred meds like Imodium. All of the food at the wedding will be safe, as we are contracting trusted venders who will use filtered water through their process. We simply don't know what else you'll get up to and just want to make sure you're aware of the potential risks.
The meaning of life is like an unfinished puzzle—each piece holds significance, but its true form only emerges through experience, connection, and the stories we create along the way. In the journey of two different individuals coming together as a couple, it’s as if two distinct puzzles begin to merge, forming a new, richer picture. It’s not about finding one singular answer, but about how two unique lives intertwine to create shared moments, growth, and a deeper understanding of love and purpose.