FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by August 10, 2026.
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What is the dress code?
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We are going for cocktail, semi-formal garden party! Be mindful of shoes as the ceremony & reception will be in grass. Our colors are black, white & a *hint* of sage green. The wedding party & immediate family will be wearing black. We ask for you to NOT wear black or white, baseball hats or light-washed jeans. We are hoping for warm weather, but since we will be on the water it may get a little chilly when the sun goes down, so plan accordingly with a light sweater or jacket.
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Where to park?
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We will not have parking at the venue itself - parking areas will be marked on 41st Ave on one of the neighbors propery. We will have vans transporting guests from the parking area(s) down the driveway to the venue.
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Are plus ones & children allowed?
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Everyone invited with kids are included in the guest count. Please do not bring any plus ones outside of the name(s) on your addressed invite - if you have questions about this, please let Alisa know.
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Will the wedding & reception be indoors or outdoors?
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The wedding & reception will be fully outdoors! We will have tents just in case of rain, but otherwise planning for a beautiful late summer evening.
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Is it okay to post wedding photos on social media?
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Yes, but please wait until we & our family members do first! AND - please DO NOT have your phones out during the ceremony & if you see the photographer & videographer doing their thing throughout the day, please do not get in their way.
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What food will be served?
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We are having tacos, rice, beans, chips & salsa! There will be vegetarian options available in addition to the asada, chicken & pastor tacos.
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Will there be a gap between the ceremony & reception?
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Since we are having both at the Spinharney home, there will be a gap in between to get everything flipped & set up. The gap in between will be a cocktail hour with a Photo Booth Bus in the front part of the property while the water side is being prepared.
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Will there be an open bar?
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We will have 2 signature cocktails, beer, wine, seltzer & non-alcoholic options.