FAQs

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When should I arrive for the wedding weekend?

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We know a Monday wedding asks a bit more of you, and we truly appreciate it 🤍 Please feel free to plan the weekend in whatever way works best for you. The Schedule tab on our website will be updated with the latest locations and timing for meet-ups, so feel free to check back as the weekend gets closer.

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Are kids invited?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration unless otherwise noted on your invitation. Thank you so much for understanding!

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What should I wear?

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Cocktail is perfect! For women, think midi or maxi dresses, and for men, dress shirts with slacks, jackets, or suits. No jeans, please. While the weather should be beautiful, it can get chilly later in the evening, so we recommend bringing a light jacket or wrap to stay warm and comfortable as we move between spaces throughout the night.

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What does the wedding day timeline look like?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM on Monday, and we ask guests to arrive by 4:00 PM so we can start on time. Following the ceremony, we’ll have a cocktail hour and then settle in for dinner and speeches around 6 p.m. We’re keeping things intimate and low-key (no dance floor party), but for anyone who isn’t ready to call it a night after dinner, we may hang back for a causal drink at Tom Ham's or the hotel bar after. For those heading out that evening, the venue is conveniently close to the airport and freeway for an easy trip back to reality ✈️

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Where should I stay?

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While we didn’t reserve a formal room block, there are several great hotel options near the venue. Please check out the Lodging page on our website for recommendations and details. We recommend an Airbnb if you prefer to stay with a larger group and/or save on lodging costs.

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What if I can’t make it?

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We completely understand and will absolutely feel your love from afar 🤍 Just make sure to fill out your RSVP before September 1st so we know if you'll be there in spirit.

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Are you registered for gifts?

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Your presence is truly the best gift to us. If you feel inclined to give, we will have the option to contribute to our honeymoon fund. We appreciate you making our forever so special!

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Do I need to rent a car?

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Not at all! Everything for the wedding is conveniently located near the airport, so getting around is very easy with Ubers/Lyfts as well as the free airport shuttles provided by nearby hotels. If you do choose to rent a car or drive, Tom Ham's Lighthouse offers complimentary parking for guests during our wedding.

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Are you providing transportation to the venue?

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While we are unable to provide official wedding transportation, Tom Ham’s Lighthouse is conveniently located on Harbor Island and is within walking distance from both the Hilton and Sheraton. Both hotels also offer complimentary transportation options for guests. The Hilton provides a free shuttle throughout Harbor Island, and the Sheraton offers transportation via golf cart for up to 4 guests at a time. Please note that these rides are based on availability and are NOT guaranteed, so we recommend planning ahead and arriving early if you’d like to use them. For guests hoping to use the Hilton shuttle to Tom Ham’s, please arrive at the Hilton lobby by 3:30 PM to request a ride. Guests do not need to be staying at the Hilton to use the shuttle to the venue; proof of stay is ONLY required for airport transportation.

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Can I bring a guest?

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In order to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, only the guests formally invited on your invitation will be accommodated. If you received a plus one they will appear when you RSVP.