FAQs
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It’s wedding day and I have a question!!
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Please contact Shania ( (209) 559-3775 ) or Willow ( (831) 809-2058 ) our day of coordinator friends. Jude and Alice will be just a little busy and may not be able to help
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What is the dress code for the wedding?
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#1 Wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and beautiful. It will be hot on wedding day so we recommend a sun hat or parasol and sunscreen. #2 our wedding colors are light pink and sage green if you’d like somewhere to start #3 Imagine you are a little mouse going to the wedding of a pair of gay frogs in a meadow, and dress like that
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What will the weather be like?
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May in Davis is beautiful! We expect to have highs in the 80s-low 90s and lows in the 50s. Come prepared for sunshine but also bring a light layer for the outdoor reception. Also if you are an allergy person don’t forget your meds, the pollen will be popping off.
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How can I make this queer wedding a safe space for Jude, Alice, and their loved ones?
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We are gay as in happy AND gay as in loudly and proudly queer. We want our wedding to be the same. Jude is a newlywed or partner, they are non-binary and use they/them pronouns. Their wedding party are the Judesmates. Alice’s pronouns are she/her. Her wedding party are the bridesmaids. Here are some resources to learn more and practice! https://www.them.us/story/practicing-gender-neutral-pronouns-for-cis-friends-and-family https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/2022-02-10_62054a73c902f_AquickeasyguidetotheythempronounsbyBongiovanniArchiez-lib.org_.pdf If you don’t feel that you can respect the identities (ie correct pronouns and names, affirming gender and sexuality diversity) of either spouse or our guests, we kindly request that you not attend this celebration.
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How can I help out with the wedding?
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We really want this wedding to be a community effort. So if you would like to contribute to making this event happen we'd love the help, whether that's with doing DIY projects, setup, food prep etc. Please text Alice at 530-302-6593 or email aliceandjude@gmail.com
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I'm coming from out of town, where should I stay?
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Please see the room share spreadsheet here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1MVDkY5WnRoSvk2-FteGQwI18UymwEy-7yYrp_nIr7Xw/edit?usp=sharing If you're not able to find someone to host you, there are lots of AirBnBs and hotels around Davis. We recommend being in West Davis, close to the wedding ceremony and reception.
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Are there any other events around the wedding?
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There will be a pool party Sunday afternoon for optimal hanging out time <3