FAQs

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Are kids welcome at either the ceremony or at the reception?

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We'd all love to see your kids at the ceremony! Invited guests only at the reception, please. Should you want to arrange it, professional babysitting can be made available in your rooms at the Hotel Lafayette or elsewhere during the reception. The child minders are professionals who are certified to care for children ranging from six months to seven years. To arrange for babysitting, text Jordana Montani (bride's sister and mother of two) at 716-725-9031.

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What is the meaning of "Black Tie Optional" these days?

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If you receive an invite with the term “black tie optional” know that it mostly applies to men who may or may not own or want to wear a tuxedo. For women, it means you have the option of wearing a full-length gown, or opting for a cocktail dress. Essentially, ladies should choose a dress that’ll hold up alongside a room full of men in formal tuxedos, and women who potentially have chosen to wear gowns.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The policy of Temple Beth Zion is that weddings scheduled for the end of the Sabbath may begin as early as 6:00 PM. Please arrive at 5:45 PM so that you won't be scrambling to find a good seat!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please give us and the caterers a month to prepare! RSVP by June 1 or thereabout! Thank you!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Thanks for asking! Click on the tab labelled "Registry".

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May I bring a date?

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If your envelope is addressed to you and a Guest, please do!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes, two! Please click on the "Travel and Hotel" tab!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, parking will be available at both the synagogue and at Hotel Lafayette for the reception. Uber and Lyft are also available for transportation between venues.

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If I don't eat animals or have a food allergy or sensitivity, how shall I indicate this?

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Please indicate any specifics on your RSVP card. Within REASON, I mean seriously. Extra brie on your brioche?

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Hey! It's the New Buffalo! Of course! Please click on the "Things to do" tab!