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FAQs

FAQ & FYI
Question

When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We can't wait to celebrate with you! Please let us know if you're attending by October 1st, 2026, by RSVPing online. If you haven't responded by then, we have to assume you have sadly declined. This will help us with all the fun details- from seating to food!

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Where exactly is this happening?

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That information is officially classified. To ensure zero surprise guests and a strict "invite-only" policy, the location will be released to those who receive an invitation via mail.

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Is the ceremony and reception indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held indoors. The reception to follow will be held both indoors and outdoors with a covered patio. In the event of inclement weather, plans are in place to ensure everyone’s comfort.

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But what do I wear?

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Semi-formal attire is preferred. Guests may wear cocktail dresses, midi dresses, or dressy separates. Suits or dress pants with a button-down shirt are appropriate; ties are optional. Please skip the jeans and save white for the bride! We can't wait to see everyone looking sharp!

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Can I bring my children?

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We kindly request that this event be an adult only occasion, unless specified on the invitation. This is a chance for grown-ups to eat, drink, and dance without tiny feet underfoot! Thank you for understanding.

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Can I bring a plus one or a random person I met at Walmart?

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Unless specified on your invitation, we physically cannot fit any extra beings in the building without someone sitting on the wedding cake. Unless your plus one is Casper the ghost, please stick to the names on the invite. Let's keep the surprises limited to our dance moves!

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What happens after the reception?

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Don't worry the party isn't over! We cherish the elders, but at 7:00 pm, the "Wedding" officially ends and Club James begins! Please join us for our after party that features more adult-oriented music, dancing, and drinking. (Not a dancer? Now's your time to make a graceful exit!)

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Will there be an open bar?

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Drinks are on us! Yes, we will have an open bar with beer, wine, seltzers, and frozen margaritas ready to serve! But, don't forget to tip your bartenders!